There should be a law against this type of fraud
June 21, 2013
Last April my wife left me because I didn’t want children (that was the reason for the divorce too). a few weeks after she left I started seeing a girl who lived on the other side of the country, a friend of a friend type thing. I saw her about 4-5 times over a month. We had sex but I always used protection. On the last time I saw her she said there was no need as she was on the pill anyway.
So to cut a long story short she was lying and got pregnant, unknown to me. Our fling ended and I thought we went our seperate ways. Then last month I get a maintenence request from the csa! No warning, no attempt to sort things out. It was literally the first I’ve heard of it. So not only have I been defrauded into giving some girl I hardly know a kid, she’s sent the csa my way to pay for the privilege! I don’t care what anyone says, there should be a law against this type of fraud and morally I don’t think someone in my position should have to pay considering I had no choice in the matter and was lied to in the worst way. But no choice but all the responsibility! Sucks!