The system stinks and the family justice system is corrupt
May 14, 2014
Devoiced in 2007 because wife had an affair with a inmate while working in a prison, two children which I was told had to go with their mother even though at 3 & 5 they wanted to come with me, they and I were not given any choice.
Ex agreed reduced maintenance in so she did not have to pay back debt she had run up, she then went to CSA who do not take credit card debt into account, so I paid full maintenance and still had to clear her debt.
Had a 7year battle with HMRC working tax credits because the mother said I was receiving part of the payments after we had devoiced and separated. 3years and two tribunals later I pay £190/month because at both contact court hearing the court would not let me have the children over 100 nights.
I provide the only respite for the children and still she re-interprets the court orders so the children do not know where they stand, to me that’s mental and emotional abuse but of cause no one see it that way.
I am excluded from The boys health and education by the mother.
I have just had a demand from the CSA that almost doubles my maintenance payments. I can not afford the fuel to go to work if they enforce this rate of payment. I only live for the time I spend with my children, but now its all over I will have to stop working, try and find lodgings and exist somehow with out my children. the mother earns twice as much as me, plus what her husband brings in. but its all about the mother nothing for the children or the father.
As a UK tax paying working citizen I think the system stinks, and the family Justice system is corrupt.
Could not agree more , interest of children supposed to be at the heart of it all ! Biggest lie ever trolled out in a bloated money oriented organisation .
It’s heart breaking ,
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I am sure there are two sides to this story..
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obviously two side to the story but the csa only listen to one !!
Your right there. It do stink. I not seen my kids for 4 years now. But i must stay strong. Its hard but the csa makes sure its even harder. But if i knew that girls do this to us then i never of had kids. But i got nice kids that they might not want to see me now thanks to the csa and the way its run. This country stinks. The law and the csa are both crap. They just want to make the fathers drive ourselfs to a grave. Ok i do sometimes want to end my live but we must stay here for our kids and wait till they are at the age to see us. But if they dont want to then thats ok. They cant say we never had anything to do with they as we helped they mothers have a good lifestyle and use us for our money. But ok if it takes the csa to mess up the kids lives then leave them do that. The csa are making the kids go against us. If the mothers dont want us to have anything t do with the kids then y take our money off us. You have your life with the kids so leave us have ours without our kids. That is a good price to pay on its own. Y remind us about it when we have that letter off the csa. The csa s a tool to rob the fathers. Its all wrong in this country. We need to close the csa down as they are hurting the kids and messing the kids heads up for no reason…..
Ruta Bute on May 14th, 2014 9:33 am
I am sure there are two sides to this story……lol….read what mike said Ruta.
The man hater strikes again. Michael, you won’t get any sympathy from ruta.
Most of us on here sympathise with you and it’s a well known fact that the CSA don’t give a shit about anything let alone you or the kids. And it ALWAYS listens to the pwc. Remember YOU are not the hand that feeds this bottom dwelling pond life. The pwc does, so it’s in their interest to do and listen to whatever the pwc says.
Keep your chin up mate.
Gonk