Some mothers see children as meal tickets

February 15, 2011

I have two children to my ex and would never stop my children seeing their dad. I don’t think hes a great dad but it’s up to them to find that out. My problem i have is my partner has a daughter who is nearly 8. He never knew about her until the CSA contacted him. He has paid nearly £300.00 per month, well over the odds as hes on the old system. The CSA would never tell him where to find his daughter. Over two years ago we found the mother on facebook. We got a solicitor involved. We have been to and from court for the past two years.

Cafcass also got involved and gave him 6 months indiredct contact. We went back to court sept 2010 and the judge ruled contact in a contact center should be the next stage. His ex broke the court order and never took her.

Now the Cafcass say his daughter does not want to meet him so the next stage would be to force her to. He’s not gonna do thats as its very unfair. I think the courts should come down harder on mothers who turn their children against their dads. Also theys should take their money away. If this happened more dads would see their children i bet. Children are meal tickets to mothers like this.

Two years down the line and nothing more can be done and he will never get to meet his daughter, yet he will still have to pay for the next 10 year!!!

Good old british justice system.

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