PWC denied our payments were for the child

February 12, 2013

Well this started in 1999 so im not new to the Strife and strains of ex,s and the CSA, ,I got with with my husband back in 99, still together now, life was fine until 2006 when my hubbys ex wife (married in 94 divorced 96) decided to move away and take his daughter away because she had got married and wanted her new hubby to be “dad” to her kids. Obviously both to different men, she got back in touch in 2009 when her hubby had left her deciding that she was in desperate need of financial support, this wasnt wanted or needed when her hubby was around.

Anyway things got back to some sort of normality phone calls and access if you could call it that seeing his daughter maybe a few times in between, bearing in mind he had seen her everyday since being born in 95 until the move, things were going fine me and hubby decided to get married in 2010 thats when everything went wrong, the ex wife decided that on my wedding day she was going to try and destroy it thank god she failed,Contact stopped his daughter was now 15 so old enough to make up her own mind, CSA were contacted and the ex wife decided to tell them slyly after finding out that a case of hers had lay dormant but not closed since 1997 that he had never paid her a penny, how do you prove cash payments??

We only had proof from the last 3 years of bank transactions, even then she decided to tell them they were not child support payments but just cash he had to send, nearly landed us with a huge bill, (Never once did she chase the father of her son he got away scot free), thought my hubby was a soft touch till he stood upto her, The csa wrote to us rang us and nagged us constantly for payments as well as doing the same to mu hubbys employer because the ex was on the phone everyday demanding to know where her money was.

Things came to a head a few months down the line when my hubby had decided enough was enough, he was suffering at work and at home from the csa, We went to the mp thank god he helped get things sorted, unfortunatly he lost his job, the ex wife filled the daughters head with lies claiming that her dad had left work because he didt want to pay for her, birthday cards were torn up and nasty emails sent from the ex saying how dare you send these cards when you have no right.

This woman is a nasty evil vindictive bitch who has ruled and nearly ruined my husband,our children now 14 & 6 could have lost there home all over a few quid, This woman had it all, (take me shopping take us on holiday, do this do that) if you dont pay this much you dont see your daughter, So its not just the CSA who are nasty, Some ex,s can be to,I say always keep a paper chan no matter how long it might be, otherwise you will get screwed further on down the line, if i had not been for me being strong and wanting to fight the decision god knows what might have happened to my hubby, he is wonderful man and father always does his best for his kids, some women just dont know which side there bread is buttered on,


12 Responses to “PWC denied our payments were for the child”

  1. Lisa Roberts on February 12th, 2013 2:48 pm

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  2. Lucy Henderson on February 12th, 2013 3:09 pm

    My mans ex all over. Hope u sort it out.

  3. Lucy Henderson on February 12th, 2013 4:32 pm

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  4. Lisa Roberts on February 12th, 2013 5:07 pm

    Hi lucy, its sorted so far as we know, I get the feeling it wont be long again.till csa contact us, they cant help but make life miserable for all concerned,

  5. Lucy Henderson on February 12th, 2013 5:14 pm

    Hi Lisa glad they have sorted it all out. A stop needs 2 b put 2 these money grabbing pwc x

  6. on February 12th, 2013 5:14 pm

    That’s a familiar story Lisa. My ex wants her new hubby to be dad for my three kids. He certainly doesn’t want me to have anything to do with them. She is supposed to be taking the children to see a mediator tomorrow to discuss whether they want to see me at all. That took two months to arrange from the first meeting.

    Whether she shows or not, it’ll be the first step to applying for a contact order I feel.

  7. Lisa Roberts on February 12th, 2013 5:25 pm

    I think its disgusting that men are there to provide the sperm but when things go wrong its automatically the man who gets emotionally n financially blackmailed where his kids are concerned, have kids should be same rights for both regardless, women always have the upper hand and all the money in the world isnt enough,

  8. Lisa Roberts on February 12th, 2013 5:26 pm good luck tomorrow, hope things go.your way and you get access to.your kids,

  9. Lisa Roberts on February 12th, 2013 5:30 pm

    Lucy Henderson I never say never, not where the csa are concerned, they always seem to rear their ugly head and cause disruption to my family when.its.not wanted or.needed,

  10. Jo on February 13th, 2013 6:51 am

    Your husbands ex sounds just like ours….whats wrong with them? I was left a single mum and guess what, I got on with it! Just when I thought everything was sorted with our case because the csa finally sorted out my husbands assessment the ex puts in an appeal because she realises she won’t get nothing nor the 10,000 she thought she was getting and bet she has to pay back some overpayment, which we haven’t demanded back as csa said there was no point because pwc thought it was deemed correct at that time….makes you wonder what goes on. My husband on old rules and he hasn’t seen this woman in 20+ years….get some self respect is all I can say and must be one miserable cow!

  11. lisa on February 13th, 2013 3:55 pm

    Makes me sick that women can do this and get away with it, Honest they are such nasty bitches when it comes down to money, my hubbys ex would have seen my kids go without food just so her daughter could go to drama school, bearing in mind my own daughter wants that and i cant afford it, twisted nasty bitches made worse by the evil CSA

  12. Lisa on February 20th, 2013 7:49 pm

    After reading some of the stories on here i feel very lucky, at least some of us arent bitter and twisted,

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