PWC denied our payments were for the child
February 12, 2013
Well this started in 1999 so im not new to the Strife and strains of ex,s and the CSA, ,I got with with my husband back in 99, still together now, life was fine until 2006 when my hubbys ex wife (married in 94 divorced 96) decided to move away and take his daughter away because she had got married and wanted her new hubby to be “dad” to her kids. Obviously both to different men, she got back in touch in 2009 when her hubby had left her deciding that she was in desperate need of financial support, this wasnt wanted or needed when her hubby was around.
Anyway things got back to some sort of normality phone calls and access if you could call it that seeing his daughter maybe a few times in between, bearing in mind he had seen her everyday since being born in 95 until the move, things were going fine me and hubby decided to get married in 2010 thats when everything went wrong, the ex wife decided that on my wedding day she was going to try and destroy it thank god she failed,Contact stopped his daughter was now 15 so old enough to make up her own mind, CSA were contacted and the ex wife decided to tell them slyly after finding out that a case of hers had lay dormant but not closed since 1997 that he had never paid her a penny, how do you prove cash payments??
We only had proof from the last 3 years of bank transactions, even then she decided to tell them they were not child support payments but just cash he had to send, nearly landed us with a huge bill, (Never once did she chase the father of her son he got away scot free), thought my hubby was a soft touch till he stood upto her, The csa wrote to us rang us and nagged us constantly for payments as well as doing the same to mu hubbys employer because the ex was on the phone everyday demanding to know where her money was.
Things came to a head a few months down the line when my hubby had decided enough was enough, he was suffering at work and at home from the csa, We went to the mp thank god he helped get things sorted, unfortunatly he lost his job, the ex wife filled the daughters head with lies claiming that her dad had left work because he didt want to pay for her, birthday cards were torn up and nasty emails sent from the ex saying how dare you send these cards when you have no right.
This woman is a nasty evil vindictive bitch who has ruled and nearly ruined my husband,our children now 14 & 6 could have lost there home all over a few quid, This woman had it all, (take me shopping take us on holiday, do this do that) if you dont pay this much you dont see your daughter, So its not just the CSA who are nasty, Some ex,s can be to,I say always keep a paper chan no matter how long it might be, otherwise you will get screwed further on down the line, if i had not been for me being strong and wanting to fight the decision god knows what might have happened to my hubby, he is wonderful man and father always does his best for his kids, some women just dont know which side there bread is buttered on,