Pro footballer ex won’t support our son and CSA won’t help!

November 15, 2016

Where do I start?…I’ve had terrible experiences with the CSA as long as I’ve had to deal with them (Over 6 years).

I am a single Mother of one. My sons father is a professional footballer. He has resented paying a penny for our son and promised me I will always get the bare minimum. He is still angry, 7 years later that I had the baby compared to his alternative of an abortion. A lot of his anger comes from him creating a child whilst married. His partner found out of my pregnancy and joined alliances with him to ensure my son doesn’t get his full child support allowance. Even though they are still together, they told the CSA they are not together and she put 3 of their 4 children on another case. Meaning my son gets much less than entitled to and what he pays for the other children goes back into the family. I know they still reside together because whenever my son has gone with his father, to his father’s home he will say he saw his father’s wife and his siblings. Even when he spends the night they all sleep in the house together. He’s a very advanced almost 7 year old.

When I have reported this to the CSA they told me I must prove it. Which is virtually impossible as I don’t know where my son father currently lives. My son’s father has a clothing line, properties he rents out plus a lot of income generated through his fame. The CSA won’t investigate but simply tells me to prove it, when asked how they either provide impossible solutions or basically tell it is what it is.

If I request extra help from my sins Father it is always denied. I’ve even thought about selling a story to the media in order to get some money as my son and I are barely above water financially. But it’s not in my nature to do such a thing. The CSA seem to be working for my sons father and don’t have my son’s best interest at heart at all. It has really wore me down trying to get justice in this case. My sons father told the CSA a pack of lies and the burden of exposing his lies are all on me. Justice looks bleak. Any suggestions please?

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