Comments on: Persecuted by the CSA for 10 Years http://www.csahell.com/persecuted-by-the-csa-for-10-years-183.html Child Support Agency Advice and Complaints Wed, 08 Feb 2012 18:38:26 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: michael chapman http://www.csahell.com/persecuted-by-the-csa-for-10-years-183.html/comment-page-1#comment-10898 michael chapman Thu, 03 Mar 2011 20:31:07 +0000 http://www.csahell.com/?p=183#comment-10898 My wife left me in sept of 2005. No reason was given however my daughter was only 10 months old at the time. We were not supposed to be able to have children, then when the miracle occured after almost 10 years of marriage I was told basically that I have fullfilled my mission. My wife toook whatever she could pack in her car and went to live with her family out in a rural community in Texas. They closed ranks, shut me out, and would not let me near. My wife (now ex ) Went through the court system immediatly to get child support, she weithheld visitation and I had to get a restraining order against her. Since then I have been homeless more than once because of the amount they take from me ( the OAG) for chil support. I lost our home, our car, our belongings, my daughter and my life. I can no longer afford an attorney and though I have been to court it has been pro'se and I cannot get a judge to take me seriously. My repeated attempts have been denied. I work now in Chicago,Il but have only been able to find work at $11.00 an hour. I have to live with my 80 year old sister because I can not afford to support myself. That will all change on may 1st when I must leave her apartment because her husband is returning home from a nursing home where he has been for the last year and a half and needs 24 hour care. my room must be give up so a nurse can move in to take care of him. My average net pay is only about $200.00 a week because of all the support and insurance I am being forced to pay. The amount I am being garnished is currently $614.00 a month plus $150.00 in arrears re-payment from a $3000.00 judgement( which has now grown to almost $10'000.00) plus$212.88 for insurance, plus$60.00 for dental. Thats over $900.00 a month all on $11.00 an hour. I do have a wonderful telephone relationship with my daughter who is now 6 years old. My ex tells me that I can sign my parental right away and she will back off on the child support. Well the hell with that I will be homeless first and probably will be. All the lawyers I have talked to and there have been many ,tell me they want thousands of dollars to take care of it. What the hell is wrong with this country that it will persecute good fathers and tie them up in the court system. Alls I know is that I am a father who misses his daughter very much and am being forced out of existance by this nightmare. Am I the only one? is there anyone else like me out there? If so please contact me. The laws need to change right now. I can be contacted at laurasdad56@yahoo.com. HELP My wife left me in sept of 2005. No reason was given however my daughter was only 10 months old at the time. We were not supposed to be able to have children, then when the miracle occured after almost 10 years of marriage I was told basically that I have fullfilled my mission. My wife toook whatever she could pack in her car and went to live with her family out in a rural community in Texas. They closed ranks, shut me out, and would not let me near. My wife (now ex ) Went through the court system immediatly to get child support, she weithheld visitation and I had to get a restraining order against her. Since then I have been homeless more than once because of the amount they take from me ( the OAG) for chil support. I lost our home, our car, our belongings, my daughter and my life. I can no longer afford an attorney and though I have been to court it has been pro’se and I cannot get a judge to take me seriously. My repeated attempts have been denied. I work now in Chicago,Il but have only been able to find work at $11.00 an hour. I have to live with my 80 year old sister because I can not afford to support myself. That will all change on may 1st when I must leave her apartment because her husband is returning home from a nursing home where he has been for the last year and a half and needs 24 hour care. my room must be give up so a nurse can move in to take care of him. My average net pay is only about $200.00 a week because of all the support and insurance I am being forced to pay. The amount I am being garnished is currently $614.00 a month plus $150.00 in arrears re-payment from a $3000.00 judgement( which has now grown to almost $10’000.00) plus$212.88 for insurance, plus$60.00 for dental. Thats over $900.00 a month all on $11.00 an hour. I do have a wonderful telephone relationship with my daughter who is now 6 years old. My ex tells me that I can sign my parental right away and she will back off on the child support. Well the hell with that I will be homeless first and probably will be. All the lawyers I have talked to and there have been many ,tell me they want thousands of dollars to take care of it. What the hell is wrong with this country that it will persecute good fathers and tie them up in the court system. Alls I know is that I am a father who misses his daughter very much and am being forced out of existance by this nightmare. Am I the only one? is there anyone else like me out there? If so please contact me. The laws need to change right now. I can be contacted at laurasdad56@yahoo.com. HELP

]]> By: Lord Raglan http://www.csahell.com/persecuted-by-the-csa-for-10-years-183.html/comment-page-1#comment-2219 Lord Raglan Sun, 09 May 2010 19:01:26 +0000 http://www.csahell.com/?p=183#comment-2219 I too am a policeman - and you have my every sympathy. I was a NRP for some 14 yrs and have paid an absolute fortune over those years for my two children - as well as contact costs, clothing, holidays etc etc I begged my ex to come out of the CSA and agree a fair amount - she declined. My children saw the light - seeing their mother for what she is - Pure Greed and have lived with me for the last 12 months or so. My ex - fiddled her hours and now pays me £5 per week - not that I am bothered - the kids are more to me than a source for cash she cant ever tell me shes a woman of principle. It disgusts me that public sector employees/ bank paid get hammered - I would like to now the statistic for NRP paying who are employed on this basis and the amounts they pay in comparison to the Self Employed NRP - I'd imagine there would be quite a difference. The system hasnt sorted anything out really - there are still errant fathers/ and Mothers who dont pay and never will.. Come the revolution.. I too am a policeman – and you have my every sympathy.
I was a NRP for some 14 yrs and have paid an absolute fortune over those years for my two children – as well as contact costs, clothing, holidays etc etc
I begged my ex to come out of the CSA and agree a fair amount – she declined.
My children saw the light – seeing their mother for what she is – Pure Greed and have lived with me for the last 12 months or so.
My ex – fiddled her hours and now pays me £5 per week – not that I am bothered – the kids are more to me than a source for cash she cant ever tell me shes a woman of principle.

It disgusts me that public sector employees/ bank paid get hammered – I would like to now the statistic for NRP paying who are employed on this basis and the amounts they pay in comparison to the Self Employed NRP – I’d imagine there would be quite a difference.

The system hasnt sorted anything out really – there are still errant fathers/ and Mothers who dont pay and never will..

Come the revolution..

]]> By: desperatley seeking solution http://www.csahell.com/persecuted-by-the-csa-for-10-years-183.html/comment-page-1#comment-1069 desperatley seeking solution Sun, 27 Sep 2009 23:55:47 +0000 http://www.csahell.com/?p=183#comment-1069 Hi, I am sorry man, I am a cop too. Just easy targets!!! Rather going out there and geting the one's who don't want to pay they place the ones that who can firmly over a barrell and give a good one in the derrier who can. they have done your career and I am sorry, I am sorry. I am running to stand still myself. Toget their (CSA) figures I think they go for the easy targets and ignore the ones who don't want to bother!!! It is really not worth the stress. It WILL come to an end eventually. AND you are not alone!!! Hi, I am sorry man, I am a cop too. Just easy targets!!! Rather going out there and geting the one’s who don’t want to pay they place the ones that who can firmly over a barrell and give a good one in the derrier who can. they have done your career and I am sorry, I am sorry. I am running to stand still myself. Toget their (CSA) figures I think they go for the easy targets and ignore the ones who don’t want to bother!!!
It is really not worth the stress. It WILL come to an end eventually. AND you are not alone!!!

]]> By: chall http://www.csahell.com/persecuted-by-the-csa-for-10-years-183.html/comment-page-1#comment-887 chall Thu, 25 Jun 2009 23:16:08 +0000 http://www.csahell.com/?p=183#comment-887 Hi steve, Have you ascertained how the alleged arrears have accumulated and whether they are correct. Join us on the forum at www.afairercsaforall.co.uk Hi steve,

Have you ascertained how the alleged arrears have accumulated and whether they are correct.

Join us on the forum at http://www.afairercsaforall.co.uk

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