Comments on: New Rules for Arrears

By: cindy wilson

cindy wilson — Sat, 29 Oct 2011 12:28:06 +0000

I think the csa is a total arse. And i am a woman . whats up with you woman out there. still need someone to lean on. shame on you.!!!!! I have children and do not want any money from their father as he has another life and so do I. He takes them out , buys them things and if he had to pay then all this would stop. some women out there use this as a meal ticket and usually get less . GREED. comes to mind. yes there are men out there who dont give a damn , well I have only two things to say,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,use a condom ( men , dont believe a woman who says she is on the pill) and women,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, keep your fxxxxxg legs shut.

By: Nicholas Paul

Nicholas Paul — Fri, 28 Oct 2011 17:01:14 +0000

I would just like to say i am not the perfect dad and there have been times i havent paid CSA but this is only due to it taking to long for them to process it or that i never agreed to amount i should pay as they did not have the right amount of my wages. I now have all of my kids living with me as my ex has lived with abusive boyfriends. I recieve no money from my ex as she gave up her job so as to not pay and lives off her boyfriends money. I am now paying deductions of earnings which is always wrong and never what the csa agree to take and when i ask for it back they say it cannot be returned as it is paying my arrears which was on the old unfair system. Where is the justice in the world.

By: mike

mike — Wed, 15 Jun 2011 09:47:54 +0000

years age i payed my ex voluntary payments (trying to do the right thing), she lied to the csa about how much i was giving her, wheres her punishment.

I know it sounds extreme but when i was in the army i would have died defending this country, now id walk out and leave it burning, let the women fight.

By: joe murphy

joe murphy — Wed, 20 Apr 2011 18:15:16 +0000

im sick of the fucking wankers £250 a month i pay and my ex could lift the phone and get it reduced but the smell bag wont do it fucking bitch

By: Ken Harvey

Ken Harvey — Tue, 01 Mar 2011 12:49:11 +0000

At what point if any does the arrears become Statute barred due to collection of debts exceeding a 6 year perod?

By: steve

steve — Fri, 15 Oct 2010 18:28:13 +0000

i have also been paying every month wot the csa has asked of me, going on there frequent assessments, in 2007 they informed me i had made an over payment and did i wish to claim it back, obv i said no as it would be more hassle than its worth, amazingly even though my circumstances hadnt changed in 2008 they informed me i had amassed £7500 in arrears, went to a solicitor to seek advice and with my permission he wrote to them asking to explain this arrears, they didnt reply and i heard nothing back at that time, later that year i lost my buisiness with rescession hitting hard and found a job working away, from my new wife and baby which was really hard, my payments went up again to £300 a month which i kept paying, i sadly lost my job after a 9 month contract ended but was gratefull all the same, i had to claim for the 1st time in my life and 6 months of unemployment followed ,, the csa took £5 a week off our benefits during this time, in sept 2009 i found a local job, part time self employed and my payments went to £20 aweek, eventually i was assessed again and regular payments were made at £120 a month, now i have been asked to pay an xtra £144 a month in arrears again,, baring in mind they never explained how these were made up from or replied to that solicitors letter he sent in 2008, i appealed ther descision on there web site and they sent an email back to say they had recieved this complaint,,
last monday i had another letter, this one from csa belfast informing me i was to continue with my regular payments of £86pm and there were no arrears showing in the arrears section???? (w.t.f? i pay £120 a month anyway), 3 days later csa in crewe send me a letter saying im £11500 in arrears, Been to the solicitors again and he”s at a complete loss as to understand wot is going on and could only write them again, they didnt answer last time though so im not holding my breath,,, wot is really worrying is can they put an order against our home , can i put the house in my wifes name?? this is causing a massive strain on my marriage and all though it is my problem, my wife is innoccent of any thing that i am responsible for..
If i could make the arrears payments obv i would have to find a 2nd job or more work in my trade which is scarce anyway, this in turn would put my income up and next year i would be assessed at a greater rate again, catch 22, any help or ideas people im desperate…..

By: Ian Harvey

Ian Harvey — Wed, 06 Oct 2010 19:43:02 +0000

I have been paying since I recieved the order from them. I havent missed a payment. They said that I had arrears from 1997. I said how was this when I have been paying direct from my wages since before then. They then said “we have worked out you owe £3000. We are going to take it from your wages up to your protected earnings.”. This made me bankrupt and I lost everything.

By: Trudi Smith

Trudi Smith — Tue, 17 Aug 2010 18:09:08 +0000

Well said Lorraine… To many Women see there exes as a meal tickets. I have 3 children and have never received a penny for any of them. I work full time,and brought my own house. I have not had help from anyone.. when my children go to there dads he supports them , when there with me i support them .. I think the majority of men are treat appallingly by the c.s.a ..Trudi

By: lc

lc — Sat, 14 Aug 2010 14:32:08 +0000

zx122003

i could not agree with you more my husband & i are thinking of going to live abroad to get away from this nightmare the csa have put us in & the scounging ex he as, we are fed up of going to work only to have nearly £400 a month taken from his wages, you get so fed up hearing the women on this site moaning … my ex as done this my ex as a big house & car, so what hes worked for it why shouldnt he have these things ? CANT HE HAVE A LIFE???
the moaning winging women that are so hard done too (NOT) do the men get half of the family allowance for his children ? NO.. does he get half of the child tax credits ? NO.. you all do if you want whats best for your kids then get a job or a better paid job and stop expecting your ex to keep you as well as the children .from LORRAINE

By: zx122003

zx122003 — Tue, 21 Oct 2008 23:51:49 +0000

Ha you still winging about your ex taking off to Germany.? He has done the sensible thing. Ask your self a few questions. 1. If he still lived in this country would he be paying 40% tax on his earnings? 2. After he has paid the 40% tax and is then asked for an additional 15% would he have enough money left to have any kind of life of his own? 3. How badly off are you. You don’t need to pay for your own house, you don’t need to pay council tax, you get child allowance, you are about to receive free central heating bills, you already get free school dinners and to top it all off. Ask your self. How many days have I worked? And how much of my salary have I already contributed to this government.?

On that subject. Do you know the government of this country is actually handing out child allowance to immigrants whos children don’t even live here.! Oh with the free dental health, health care and all the other thing’s that the people who do work in this country pay for.
I would say to any father in this country that does not have contact with there kids to go and work abroad. Get out of the CSA system, stick the money in an account for your child and hand it to them at a date in the future. At least that way the idiots in our government don’t get it to pay for there second home in London or Edinburgh.