My ex cheats on me, I pay CSA to her

April 17, 2010

Having paid £50 to my son for the last 10yrs, my ex has been in touch with the CSA, out of my £350 wkly wage I now have to pay £150 A WEEK, due to what they say is arrears.

How the hell can I AFFORD THAT?

I’m in rented property, have a car to run to get me to work, bills to pay. Having assessed my wage I now have £4.97p aweek for myself. I’m 48yrs old, never been out of work since I left the army after school. I’m now having to terminate my flat and seriously packing my job in.

My ex commited adultery it was me who’s life was shatterd, why the hell can’t they look at the man’s side of the story, which idiot runs the csa?

Written by I.A. FROST · Filed Under CSA Advice, CSA Complaints

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One Response to “My ex cheats on me, I pay CSA to her”

chall on April 19th, 2010 9:38 am

Hi I.A. FROST,
Is your case CSCS (CS1) or CS2?
Your also welcome to click on my user name and join us in the forum at afairercsaforall.

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