I’ve been paying direct for three years but my ex tells the CSA I’ve given nothing

October 19, 2013

i have a csa hell story in which i have been paying for my 3 children direct for 2 years and my ex partner has decided to tell the csa i have paid her nothing, this has left me with arrears and now the csa have decided i have to pay them back at a rate of £485 a month for the next 4 years because i have not proof i have paid the ex in cash.

how is this even legal as because i have no proof i have not a leg to stand on and now i have to pay this amount i am only left with £100 a month to live on after paying bills, this £100 has to feed me, cloth me and also im supposed to feed the kids and take them out when they come round….

Comments

  • derek miller says:

    is the amount that they are deducting more than 40% of your wages? also, how many nights do you have the children? and how many miles is your work from where you live as the crow flies?

  • Lisa says:

    The CSA cannot chase you for arrears unless the case was still open, they only go off the date they contacted you, I suggest you apply for your data file, it’s a tenner but worth every penny to see the mistakes the CSA make, join our Facebook group child support agency ripoffs we can get you the help you need to get the complaint in about why your assessment is so high, it’s normal they take mums word for it but this has to be challenged

  • Jeremy Lambert says:

    The Data file is free you are no obliged to pay for it by rights it belongs to you and they are not allowed to charge you for it i got mine without charge but you do have to push them and there is a special way to ask for it go to dead beat dads society all the info you will need is there.

  • Mike Hunt says:

    Yes Lisa I thought your payments/arrears only started from the date the CSA contacted you.. Just buy a cheap receipt book and fill the dates in back three years and forge the fuckers signature.. Two can play that game.. There is your proof.. Always pay privately or to the CSA by standing order.. Never let the corrupt oxygen theives have you bank details..NO direct debit

    Good luck chief

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