If I’m paying all of this money, I should be able to see my son, right?
July 20, 2013
First of all I am happy too see I’m Not the only person that has problems with the csa. Before mothers read this and say I shouldn’t complain about paying support, I have an always will support my son regardless and have done since I split with his mother.
I split with his mother in 2012 when my son was 8 months old due to her being abusive cheating and stealing money from my bank. Ever since that day I have had to fight tooth and nail too see my son.
One day she moved away in September 2012 and I haven’t seen my son since. I missed his 2nd Christmas and 2nd birthday. Yet I am paying £87 a week in child support with no help from the csa as regards too advice for access. After explaining to the csa that I cannot afford to pay £87 due to outgoings. After skirting around my calls for help for 2 weeks I basically got a ‘tough s***’ deal with it.
And still to this day I haven’t seen my son and I still receive abusive messages from his mom such as ; I hope you die I hope you suffer Your scum You will never see my son Your not his real dad My family are going to batter you. After being ill with stress and depression due to this abuse and not seeing my son.
I would happily pay all my wages just too see my little boy again. And I can’t afford to go to Court because he has the majority of the money I have left after bills.
If I am paying all this money surely I should be able too see him? But the csa say its not their fault and to go to court or stop moaning.
They are biased towards mother and don’t have any consideration to fathers and financial constraints. It’s heartbreaking too see so Many men being messed about and stopped seeing their kids by vindictive self centred mothers.