I want to stop my ex seeing his children
December 27, 2010
My ex (nrp) is self employed he pays £5 a week for two kids via the csa he was paying £50 a week private agreement that was untill he started to pay when it suited him (hardley ever) then stopped compleatly & told me to go through the csa. If i asked for money as we had nothing no baby milk nappys etc i was told to find some other mug to pay for them!
I cant afford to live its only because i have my parents support that we survive my kids are 1 & 2 i dont have the option to get back to work yet childcare costs etc makes it not worth it, he works full time & sees them through a contact centre that i take my children to voulenteraly he says i use them as a weapon but as far as i can see he dose i have no life anymore while he’s been on holiday this year & has a fully paid one booked for beg of nxt year he parties every weekend & wears desighner clothes, my kids are lucky to have clothes most are hand me downs from friends or bought by relatives! I’m thinking about stopping contact & making him pay through the courts to see them as he obviously dosnt care about them realy or thier well being.
It’s sad i kno that its become a war but y should i live in poverty (benefits are not as great as u might think) while he claims poverty but lives like a king, whats right & whats wrong is always clouded by the situation your in not paying to support your kids is wrong no matter. Its the kids who miss out, i can live without a haircut or night out but they cant live without food or a bed to sleep in or shoes that i cant afford so if withdrawing contact is the only way to make him pay then so be it y go out my way to provide contact when he refuses to support them & has enjoyment in the fact we suffer because of it.
A stupid game where kids get forgotten.