I have nothing left to live on – where do I stand?

June 18, 2013

Just had a phonecall reguarding the payments i was making through csa to my ex partner. i have two kids with her and on the csa calculator it stated on the £871 a month i take home id pay £140 per month which i have, they are now saying from there calculations it should be £217 a month i should pay, taking into account my rent is £400 pm private rented,council tax is £109, £80 for gas and elec, £38 water and £12 t licence.

I live a 20 min drive from work and cant get there by bus no direct buses if i got bus would mean getting up at 4am and after bus a 45min walk, so i need my car, got told of the man on phone im living beyond my means! i dont drink at all or smoke either, can anyone enlighten me as to where i stand ie how much by law i should be left to live on, i really would be better of on benefits at this rate, thanks

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7 Responses to “I have nothing left to live on – where do I stand?”

  1. photomanhayes on June 18th, 2013 8:19 am

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  2. hornbeamfairy on June 18th, 2013 8:25 am

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  3. Darran Attwood on June 18th, 2013 8:27 am

    The csa are evil they will take every penny off you. They don’t care if you can not afford it or if you haven’t got it. You have to pay. Ok I see the point were you have to pay for your child even when you don’t see it. But come on csa be fair. I paid csa for 16 yrs and now I am finally free from them. My ex is a physco and stopped me seeing my child for 11 yrs I had access even took her to court and she still made it difficult to see him.
    Life is not fair and why do crazy women get away with it.
    Csa leave us men alone !!!

  4. Pat Savage on June 18th, 2013 5:41 pm

    I feel your pain especially as I’m on the old rules and pay through the nose for 3 kids. What has seriously peed me off is that my eldest is 18 this year and will prob join the Army thus being out of the equation but I’ve been told by them that payments will hardly go down at all. WTF. And I haven’t seen my kids for over 10 years coz my ex wife refused me access and then moved without telling me. I’ve traced them but now they don’t want to know me. I’ve written to my MP and hope he can sort something out but haven’t received any telly as yet.

  5. Pat Savage on June 18th, 2013 5:46 pm

    Reply not telly oops

  6. Stewart Cramphorn on June 18th, 2013 6:00 pm

    Pity u can’t get a sub contractors job, it sadly the only way they can’t take all your bloody money , ass holes !!!!!.

  7. Lisa on June 18th, 2013 8:20 pm

    http://www.facebook.com/groups/204256966364149 Join our group on facebook, lets see i we can get you some help

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