I can’t live on what’s left as I have to pay bills – what can I do?

December 16, 2013

i had a ex girlfriend who had a baby girl we split up. she got a new boyfriend and got csa they are wanting a large amount of me, her ex told me that he was with her aswell while i was at work the child has my name on her birth certificate so i dont know if she is mine she had a child to her ex and i must admit they look alike so she has two girls i can not live on whats left i have a house to run pay bills

Comments

  • Corryn says:

    Get a dna test done, it may be expensive but if the child turns out not be yours its in your best interests, emotionally and financially. If it were me I would beg steal and borrow to get the money together to make this a priority. There are private companies that do these dna tests, you could be put out your misery in a couple of days.

  • Bill says:

    Dispute paternity with the CSA.
    They should arrange the DNA test and there is nothing to pay if you are not the parent.
    If you are the parent the cost will be added to any arrears.

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