How do you avoid paying the CSA?

March 2, 2010

Starting new job. How do I not pay CSA? Or pay really low £5.

P.S. any fans of PWC jog on. I dont care what you have to say. Any people talking about morals or being a good dad… bla bla bla
Jog on. Did all that, got me no where just in debt.

So ill say again how do I avoid not paying CSA? Maybe when I go to work use a friend’s national insurance number? Ask a friend to open a bank in his name?.

Any comments relating to avoiding CSA please, nothing else.

Comments

307 Responses to “How do you avoid paying the CSA?”

  1. What to do? on September 1st, 2015 2:35 pm

    My ex moved 300 miles away 5 years ago with my 2 boys (I’ve been paying the csa since we split which was 15 yrs ago) we had agreed a sensible amount each month all along. Recently I was made redundant and when I told her I might need to change the amount I gave, she went straight to the csa and now i’m being hounded for £276 every month.

    £160 of this is apparently “arrears” totalling £7600 which is a complete joke. My ex told the csa I didn’t owe this years ago but according to a lady I spoke to at the csa she only suspended the “arrears”

    The thing is I’ve never been a missing dad, I had them every weekend since we split up many moons ago and feel I shouldn’t have to pay. I feel if anything i’ve paid twice all along. I dont have the skills to be self employed and have just handed my notice in on my house as I can’t afford to live there anymore. I’m tempted to sell what little i’ve got and go travelling and see where I end up.

    Any advice greatly appreciated & if anyone from the csa reads this you can kiss my arse

  2. THE TRUE ORIGIN OF THIS POST on September 2nd, 2015 4:45 pm

    SORRY TO HERE THIS I CANT BELIEVE THIS IS STILL GOING ON, WHAT I MEAN BY THAT IS I MADE THIS POST 5 YEARS AGO AND ITS STILL GOING LOL.

    OK LET ME JUST SAY IF YOUR GOING TO BE A THE GOOD GUY TELL THE TRUTH PRAISE THE LORD OR GOD PRAY TO JESUS AND ALL THAT BULLSHIT. I HAVE TO TELL YOU YOU KEEP DOING THAT AND YOU’LL END UP HOMELESS WITH NO MONEY AND ANGRY IF THAT’S WHAT YOU WANT DON’T READ ANYMORE AND HAVE A NICE DAY.

    ON THE OTHER HAND IF YOU HAD IT AND YOU WANT TO FIGHT WITH NO LITTLE EFFORT READ ON..

    WHAT YOU HAVE TO DO IS IF YOU CAN SHOW YOU HAVE PAID ALL THAT TIME CONTACT CSA VIA EMAIL OR WRITING AND TELL THEM SHOW THEM, IM SORRY TO SAY YOU CANT BE THE GOOD GUY WHEN IT COMES TO CSA CANT BE GOOD GUY TO THE BABY MUM SHES SHOWN SHES A PEACE OF SHIT.

    YOU HAVE TO SHOW OR TELL CSA YOU HAVE NO MONEY, DON’T GIVE THEM YOUR Bank details.

    and write to them to dispute what you owe, if all else fails you just have to have the don’t give a fuck attitude its not what you want to hear but it has to be that way the world is a terrible place when they want money, that money you have stated csa will take it for them self its a business its not thee to help you lets make that clear it makes money for them self’s through you.

    bottom line is don’t pay, if they come after you either move or fight just lie to them no more mr nice guy if you want to be the nice guy this post is not for you.

    i was in the same position as you, the so called mum stop me from seeing the child, told police i was harassing her just pure bullshit. i just disputed it 3 times then they wanted me to pay “£10 a week i paid for around 4 weeks then just stopped, i was not seeing the child due to the mother and she was calling some one else daddy and the second name was changed without my consent to her partner shes with now. then i just started to ignore them.

    i changed my bank account i changed random jobs went self employed signed on the benefits go self employed.

    if i didn’t do that i would be home less right now.

    this is why there are plenty of children not seeing there dad. because they cant afford it due to greedy xs and child support agency using you as a cash cow.

    just think of ways to survive and enjoy your life. if you want to see the child and shes says you can then do so if not, oyou just have to be the bad guy and win or be that i am a good guy bullshit and become homeless. choice is yrs.

    5 years from this post 3 years ago i ave not paid a penny. child is 19 now but you still have to pay until there 21.

    GOOD GUY= HOMELESS STRUGGLE LIFE NOT WORTH LIVING DIE UNHAPPY
    BAD GUY= NOT PAYING, HAVING MONEY IN YOUR POCKET BEING HAPPY, PAYING YOUR BILLS, HAPPY UNTIL YOU DIE.

    ITS YOUR CHOICE.

  3. Gary on October 26th, 2015 10:08 pm

    I remember the post all those years ago as i posted one just after you. Your right too, honest doesnt pay. Its been 5 years and according to csa i am now 55k in arrears. The chances of them getting this are slim to none. Now all this is on a presumed to be the father no dna test done but they dont give a shit, the alleged kids are 24 & 21. Happilly married now with 2 great step kids. So those knobs who say im a deadbeat dad fuck you. My ex took the piss and shagged around despite the warnings i will leave, she carried on i left then CSA on my arse from 1993 till now. Done the usual quit jobs, moved around, self employed now. Marstons now on my case with bailiffs coming to house. Sorry marstons its not my house, im not on the rent book, gas bill, leccy bill, not on electoral roll there either. Dont own anything in the house, it all belongs to the wife and or her kids.my valuables are in a storage unit im renting just in case the parasites get into the house. Work away all week on various job locations, if anyone comes round to my house the wife tells them im not living there and gives them my digs address to give them the runaround. Im fucked if im letting the csa throw me into poverty with my new family just to fund and house fucking immigrants and line the governments pockets as none of it would make it to my alledged kids anyway.

  4. Bianca on February 15th, 2016 3:03 pm

    Pay up you good for nothing cunts
    I would not blame your kids for hating you’s lol
    Dead beats

  5. Chris on March 4th, 2016 10:20 pm

    Bianca, what a perfect turn of phrase you have.

    I’ve been separated for fifteen years and have been hounded like hell by her or the CSA all the way. I’ve paid and never tried to get out of it.

    I started by paying her directly, then she got the CSA involved and the amounts they were taking were crippling. I had to quit one job because the CSA didn’t leave me enough money to put petrol in my car to get to work. I lost my job, my home, my car and my self-esteem.

    I found a new job and was going to contact the CSA to let them know but the ex and I agreed a monthly amount and I paid her every four weeks – talk about taking the piss, she used to taxi to my work on my payday, knowing she couldn’t pay the taxi until I gave her some money, so I had to let her take my card to the cash machine. She never took more than we agreed though.

    Then the CSA found out and sent me a letter. There were two and a half thousand pounds arrears, according to them. It appears that she had been claiming benefits while I was paying her, but not declaring the income from me. I asked her to sign a receipt for two years worth of payments and sent that to the CSA. They phone her and she lied, so I had to pay the arrears – on top of what I’d already paid. Again the deductions were crippling.

    About four years ago I was talking to the CSA again. I’d been out of work due to a disabilty but they hadn’t received my letter (they always said that) so there were more arrears. A chap phoned me a few days later to say that the ex had been found to have been lying about child benefit so they had to recalculate the claim going back over a year. This almost wiped out the arrears.

    The most frustrating thing is that during that conversation the chap asked me if I was still living with my parents. I had stayed with them for a few months after the separation but hadn’t been living with them for ten years. Apparently if they had known they would have taken my rent and council tax into consideration. The payments reduced to a third of what they had been.

    So for eight years I paid three times as much as I should have paid, plus repaying what I’d already paid over two years because she lied to them and there is absolutely no way i can get any of that back from the CSA.

    I’m still paying CSA and it’s still being deducted from my wages. I’ve stayed straight with them in spite of what they and she put me through, but I don’t blame anyone for wanting to try and avoid the misery and virtual poverty that I experienced.

    So Bianca, you illiterate, ignorant and ill-mannered little scrote, please go fuck yourself.

  6. Anoymus on April 8th, 2016 4:03 pm

    I have 2 children with an ex and because she cannot accept i’ve moved on she has sent me to csa even though i was paying for my two children. because she wanted more money she asked for collect and pay. Even though she has requested it I have to pay that 20%. Now she stops me from seeing my children because she doesn’t want them to be around my new life or their family and this i believe is plain spiteful. I gave my children some gifts for Christmas and because she doesn’t want the children to celebrate christmas she sent them back the same day. I try to be the good guy by doing the right thing in paying child support but now I am not so sure as i have sent them my payslips and even though i have bee paying her direct pay, she has told them I have been paying since the agreed date and now they are claiming that I have £2000 in arears and need to pay it. I love my children but some women give women a bad name.

  7. Donald on April 22nd, 2016 10:34 pm

    I got a form sent to me 07 saying an ex had put in a claim and the letter said I didn’t owe anything as she turned 18 or whatever the age to stop paying is then in 2016 I get a call from them (today) saying there looking at my case heard nothing for 8years 3 months and this comes out the blue any help please

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