Hello All,
I am already paying £300 to my enstranged wife by mutual agreement.
i am in a process of a Divorce.
I work away 190 miles from my daughter of 6, when i travel average 2 weekends a month to pick her up it is averageing £100 on fuel, i then have to take her another 34 mile to my parents.
As any father would do i spend on her food and clothing and luxuries whilst i have her.
I am in a decent paid job, but the ex has lefy me paying a lot of gambling debts and a mutual high loan.
I know credit cards arn't took into consideration, but the loan is £350 a month up to August next year.
Apart from having my daughter at them weekends i have her 2 weeks easter 2 weeks summer and mixed 2 weeks Xmas.
Unfortinately the £300 i pay to the ex direct is spent straight away on gambling,drugs and alcohol, this is just not speculation,as my job enables me to find this out.
My daughter has not had any new clothes bought with that money for a long time, and i had to force the ex to buy new school clothes that fitted her.
Please is there any entitlements available if i go to the CSA to make my payments?
Would i be better off financially through the CSA?
Many thanks in advance,
Grommit
