Hi, this is going to take a while to explain and any advice of guidance would be appreciated.
My husband of 5 years opened his payslip yesterday and had a deduction of 370.99 from the CSA. Immediately he phoned them to ascertain the reason.
Background: Husband has a son from a previous relationship, he has weekend access and pays maintenance direct to his mum by standing order. All ok and CSA agree no issue.
There was another case brought against my husband by a woman who claimed he fathered her son in 2003. At the time he and his ex (still friends) filled out forms to dispute parentage and to request DNA test. My husband had NEVER even had sex with this woman so it's impossible for him to be the father. The woman refused a DNA test and the CSA sent paperwork in 2004 to state no payments were owed or due, case closed.
In Aug 2011 this woman contacted ME via facebook claiming my husband was the dad of her son. My husband had been honest from the start of our relationship so I knew about her already and any stirring she was trying to do wasn't going to work. I asked her to explain their relationship, had he paid any money, why had she not done a DNA test. Everything she said I could counter with paper evidence (payslips, CSA letter). My husband contacted the CSA to notify them what the woman was up to and they confirmed that there was no case to answer.
So why NOW have they taken money from his wages, we've had no letters notifying us of their intentions and he is not the child's dad. It making us sick with worry, we have bills and rent as well as two young sons to feed. When he contacted them asking for an explaination the operators are so vague and keep saying we'll get back to you in 5 working days! And then if they do get back to us what if this isn't the end of it?! So scared of what will happen next.
We will be writing to them and sending photocopies of paperwork they sent regarding this in the past which they now deny all knowledge and getting a copy of the paperwork nmy husband's payroll received, hopefully they'll be the name of someone at the CSA we can direct our anger and frustration to. So sorry for the long ranting post.
