Just had a distressing call from the CSA. My daughter turned 18 in May 2008. Now in Feb 2010 they called to say an oversight has been made. No-one bothered to get in touch to tell me or my ex that he can stop paying maintainence for my daughter once she turned 18, like they do with child benefit. Now it seems I have to pay my ex back nearly 6k and it's not my (or his) fault.
I fear for myself and my other child as he is the violent sort and will set his dogs on me as I do not have that kind of money. I have had to take an injunction out against him in the past.
I would be ever so grateful for some advice.
