I am a parent with care of three lovely children, My x husband is controlled by his mistress whom he now lives with, he lives a very nice life eating out, buying laptops computers brand new cars and is now a "house husband" . He has lost two appeals and been told to pay up and his words were " but I dont know what she will spend the money on " I dont drink smoke or gamble Im not a woman who has to have all the latest trends and infact I go without so I can support my children properly. The money is not seen as a wage for having the children its the same money he would be paying towards the childrens upkeep if he had kept it in his trousers and not commited adultery!
Many posts on here seem to be about PWC stopping the NRP seeing the child and the NRP thinks that if they pay they should see the children... they are not a comodity to be hired out for cash!
Im not asking for most of my x husbands income but he has gone to great lengths to avoid payment even leasing both properties he owns to his mistress for the exact amont of time it is till our youngest daughter leaves full time education! This by the way is diversion of income!
So whilst i struggle hes happily driving around spending what he likes when he likes without a second thought of the children !