I was assessed by CSA 4 years ago and it was £0, i share care with my son, and buy everything he needs and provide him and his mother with telephone, internet, sky TV, clothes, money and grocery's, recently though i received a letter from the CSA saying i owe £2000 plus in arrears and demanding payments beyond my earnings (I have low income (£700, which will drop in march to £500) and spend all my money on my son), they want £280 a month, after calculations that leaves me with -£230. The letter states the wrote last year (Which they didn't), the mother got a letter too saying they where chasing me for money for her (Which she will never receive)
I have a good relationship with the mother, who doesn't want their involvement, but receives benefits, we are hoping to rekindle our relationship but this is destroying me. Today i got a "Child Maintenance Enforcement letter", yesterday i just registered for "Insolvency" due to a build up of credit card debts. Please help this is just getting abit to much for my sanity.
