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1. jocko
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   Yet again i have just been hit with a bill for arrears from this incompetent organisation for the third time through no fault of my own. These parasites who call themselves caseworkers when contacted do not give a shit about your circumstances, all they are interested in is meeting their targets, so that they can get their bonus to pay into their over inflated pensions thats why they target the decent fathers out there who actually pay and take an interest in their childs/childrens lives and pay their maintenence every month. The work shy junkie waste of space who fathered my grandaughter refuses to engage in a DNA test,though he wants to see her but pay nothing towards her keep. My daughter has been in contact with the CSA about this issue, and the statement that they have come out with is a joke, if he refuses to take a DNA test then there is nothing they can do about it, so tell me where is the justice for all law abiding N>R>P's.

   Posted 5 months ago #

2. Mickey Mouse
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   Oh poor you - we have had 2 years of complete hell. They seem to just completely disregard everything the father/carer seems to have to say and my husband at one stage was close to suicide.
   You can phone up with a question, get an answer then phone up again and get another answer. The baffoons expected my husband to continue paying nearly £200 a month even after his wage had halved and we couldnt afford it - no one was willing to help...

   This coupled wit endless lies by the x in relation to shared care, providing court documents suggesting we do have the child on regular occasions, providing diaries etc etc etc I just feel they are a complete joke not taking into account any feelings that the father and new family may have. I never dreamt there were so many problems until I logged on here - why isnt something being done?????

   hope you get it sorted x

   Posted 5 months ago #

3. gwen
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   CSA certainly are incompetent!! Ive been dealing with them for 10yrs on and off, but because of the stress it was causing me i gave up in the end and eventually received payments from my ex husband when my YOUNGEST daughter with him was in her last year of schooling, what a waste of time honestly.
   I really do feel for the nrp's that are paying for their kids, they are having to suffer and are being hounded by these people non stop, i think, to make up for those also incompetent nrp's that will go to extremes to avoid paying for their kids.
   I am having to go through all this for a 2nd time as my sons father has been doing everthing to avoid paying, as my son is 11 yrs old he knows what the arguments are about and gets really upset with the situation, as i look like the big bad wolf for fighting this with him. He gave up work 3 yrs ago so he didnt have to pay, and for the past year has been working cash in hand on and off but has been totally denying it. Yet again he was spotted by a family member the other day, so i told him i had all the details to report him and the firm for tax evasion (not to the csa as its not their job to do the dirty work, aparantly) he actually shit himself and came to my house and offered me £25 a week in child maintenence, WOW, so what do i do?? accept this offer and just be grateful i have justice for my son at last, or do i do the deed and cause more upset for my son?
   These are the people that need terrorising by the CSA, not the ones who actually are willing to pay, they are the easy targets you see, finding the ones that are going to these extremes to avoid paying, thats far too much work for them!!!

   Posted 5 months ago #

4. Mickey Mouse
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   Hi Gwen - I do agree with your comments, however (I'm not suggesting this in your situation) but the CSA push and push and push people to a limit that the child is forgotten about and the father does try to find ways of paying less because the CSA do just act like parasites.. My husband uses petrol to work in the community - he gets this back through his wage - the CSA then take his payment based on his petrol allowance also - It makes you want to just say bugger it and not work sometimes!! Why does he have to pay to work???????

   It's hard but when u have an X that lies about shared care and asks for a re-calculation every 2 bloody minutes then the CSA take months to re-calculate it doesnt half grind you down... the funny thing is we had a private agreement prior to her going to the CSA and her greed initially paid off but now she only gets half of what we were paying her!!!

   Posted 5 months ago #

5. TimboRRR
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   Hi all on this thread.
   I, like you have the utmost contempt for the CSA, as a hard-working and caring parent, but an NRA, I have been treated as though I was some serial sex offender who should be pilloried by all who work in that apology of an agency.
   I have finished paying for my eldest daughter several years ago(she's now in the Air Force) and have just finished paying for my youngest daughter(just left college). Right at the start of my own personal battle, the CSA had slapped an attachment of earnings before I had a chance to argue so I had no choice but to survive on Jam sandwiches for 8 years.
   They have now checked my account and say I owe them another £11,000...They have slapped another order on my wages and I am having to argue against them yet again (the original order was their calculation).
   I am completely depressed by this and understand that being a caring parent who works hard and wants an active relationship with his children is not the right way to do things (because the CSA will screw you)...I should have gone on the dole or left the country, I would have been better off (albeit a lot lonelier).

   Posted 5 months ago #

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