I have always paid my ex the amount I should for our son, though I didn't have a job for 4 weeks between December 2011-January 2012 so didn't give her as much as usual in that time. I am now employed but ex is demanding I backdate the money and pay her for the period I was unemployed..(money I don't have). So do I have to do that? She's saying I can't see my son if I don't pay her. I wasn't claiming any benefits for the period I was unemployed.
Edited to add: I have always paid in cash directly to her, never through CSA.
