My ex and i split 17 years ago. Initially the CSA was contacted, but we quickly decided that we would rather have a private arrangement. From day one I have paid the agreed monthly amount without fail. Yesterday I received a letter from the CSA claiming that I owe money to them. I phoned the CSA straight away to be told that I owe them this money because my ex was claiming benefits after our split. No amount of arguing that i had paid the agreed amount without fail would help. The CSA say I have to pay this money. Why am I being saddled with a large arrears bill if I've been paying the agreed amount? I just dont get it!! Should I appeal?
