Hi All, Friday i had a answer machine message on my mobile, saying please phone back on this number and speak to Glen Johnson for a business opportunity.
I phoned the number and it was CSA.
I met my ex 5/6 years ago she had 2 children from her previous fella, he left them when the youngest was 2 and she has not recieved any payments to date.
When i met my ex they had nothing as they were poor broke and on benefits and no child support from ex, and i had a briliant job well payed and doing well. I Spoiled the kids and brought them everything they wanted and treated the ex aswell, as i thought they needed abit of spoiling.
Well after 3 years into the relasionship we had a baby girl, Still working at the time and doing well, antil about a year later my ex phoned me at work saying she was bored and all i do is look after your ***** child and stay in the house etc. I replyed well go out then phone your friends who have other children and go to park etc, anyway i couldnt get through to her so left work and went home, after a few days the same phone call and few days more another phone call at work. This time threatening to swallow loads of pills so i rushed home took her to the doctors for them to give her the pills , Anti-depressant pills.
Her friend phoned up saying she was coming back from greece after 4 years and they should meet up, so they did. Not log after my ex started smoking dope and started using money from the joint account for this.
Now i begged her for 2 years to give up or i will leave, Well the phone calls at work didnt stop and my boss's said look we cant tolerate you going home all the time, Bare in mind i would take work home and work from there in the evening. But i thought it was understandable too.
Well we agreed i go contract which was for better money and i could choose my own hours etc and work from home as i was thinking what if she does take tablets etc.
That was it, i was getting up taking care of the boys take them to school look after my baby daughter and working on my laptop,doing lunch,cooking dinner, cleaning etc while My ex was in bed till 1/2 everyday from then on. The credit crunch hit and i lost more and more work and started the benefits thing income support council tax etc and she would continue smoking dope of an day/evening. We argued everyday, it seemed more important to her to smoke dope and be with her mates.
Well i had enough left after big arguement last year etc.
Ive payed her £30 every 2 weeks which has came from a loan off my parents but they have said they cannot loan me anymore money etc so i needed to start jobseekers again to get some money in. Now I have had a phone call from the CSA, which they left a message on my mobile pretending that its a Business opportunity.
I have tried contacting her but shes changed her numbers.
If i contact the CSA will they arrange Visiting rights etc and give me her new number, so i can ask why not let me know about change in number? i know shes ok as i spoke with her mate on facebook briefly.
How much wil they take off me etc?
I'm willing to support my child as long as i can see her, is that right me thinking that or ?
Any info would be appreiciated