Ex wants me to pay for her parents as well!
June 4, 2010
I am a father of a young girl (9 months) and me and her mother have split up. She is now demanding £600 a month to take care of our child or she will got to CSA. My child has wanted for nothing, and still will want for nothing. I want to share in her up bringing and be a massive part of her life… I work out of town (away early home early) and my mother has said she would look after my child (stay at my house) the days I have her while I’m at work, but my partner is saying she will not give shared custody of her as she doesnt want her left with my parents (only when I’m at work this would happen). My partner stays with her parents and allows them to look after my child but wont let me do the same.
She is her mothers carer that makes me think that Her mother shouldnt have our child on her own as she may fall ill. Now her father’s flat has become available she said she’s moving into that and I should be paying for it.
I have told her she is free to stay at our own home as it is large enough. All I want is access to my child, and for reasonable outcome on what I should provide.
Will the CSA be in favour of me, the father who wants to be a part of his childs life?
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Hi Billy,
The agency are only concerned with calculating maintenance and are not there to deal with contact issues.
chall ~ afairercsaforall.co.uk
No – they wont. We have the same problem. Sounds like you need to go get some legal advice matey regarding the shared custody.