Comments on: Ex takes daughter away yet CSA still want my money

By: Chest Rockwell

Chest Rockwell — Thu, 26 Aug 2010 20:02:55 +0000

Dougie, I hope you get this mate, I’ve recently FOUND my ex and my girl…after 12 months of them evading me and the ex’s parents and friends IGNORING my requests for their whereabouts I finally located them and the ex and her new boyfriend’s love nest! I employed a damn good but expensive PI who was well prepared to break every rule in the book to find the bitch…and yeah he did just that! Last Friday he walked into her place of work and SERVED her the family court docs…she was shocked! F*cking classic! Now her and the boyf have put their house (his house) up for rent??? I’m shocked…but you know what? I’ll pursue that bitch till my dying days! She WILL NOT get one over me! I will FIGHT to see my girl. Chest

By: Dougie

Dougie — Thu, 12 Aug 2010 14:56:48 +0000

C S A take hundreds of pounds from me every month for my 2 kids and my acsess time is 3 hours a month my ex run off with the entire sale money from our sold home a 30 grand car i never new were they were for months i was in Edinburgh and found out the were in Bristol there is a lot more to this story i we had a rest for 10 years she even tried to sell that behind my back now through caf cas which seems to be run by unie drop outs i see my kids for 36 hours a year thats right 36 hours a year i have had to move to bristol from scotland as i would not let her brake my bond with them were is the justice dad get no help what so ever we are just sperm banks in all ways i would like to hear from guys in the same position we could try to put somthing together this has to stop it cant go on fell free to email and and lets stand up and be counted lads Dougie

By: kerry

kerry — Tue, 02 Mar 2010 18:27:54 +0000

Hi my heart goes out to you it really does, but please not all women do this, my ex has done an much the same, I fought in court and got a shared residency order, but to the good old CSA this means S**t.

I’ve worked hard all my adult life to support my kids and a S**t of a man when I was married to him, now I work to keep him and his new family .

it does happen to women to and I am ashamed of women that do this.But there are good and bad, evil and good on both sides, I call my ex the PWC. Parent with Control. This is domestic abuse and the good old CSA encourage this behaviour, so many can sit on their arses all day, I don’t see any benefit to the kids, do you ? Just teaches them this is exceptable and it doesn’t pay to go out to work.

By: Chest Rockwell

Chest Rockwell — Mon, 01 Mar 2010 17:13:06 +0000

Brokenfather,

Why are we not allowed to be ‘Dads’. If I could see my little girl then believe me ‘money’ would never be topic of debate as I pay more than the CSA could ever get out of me!

However, I know exactly what you’re going through! PWC should actually mean PARENT WITHDRAWS CHILD because that is exactly what SOME (not all) do! Those looking in from the outside just don’t realise what this does to the mental well being of a person i.e. someone who has had their own flesh and blood taken away from them! And then to add insult to injury they demand money????

I haven’t been the same ever since this all happened! My career is out of the window and all those things that were once part of my personality have now gone forever! All that is left is one hell of a bitter individual! But no…that cannot be expressed as it’s all about the well being of the child??? What about the well being of the parent that is NOT ALLOWED to see their child??? These judges, politicians, CAFCASS, CSA and the other hanger’s on just don’t get it! They don’t understand (more like they do not care) what harm people like my ex do when they withdraw access to people’s kids! They cannot see what that does to a NRP’s head! Yet there is no law or no mechanism in place to prevent a PWC from taking such a sick decision that is not in the best interest of the child or the NRP!

I care about my little girl but my ex is using my little girl to punish me? And for what? Because I caught her out? Because I didn’t sign my life away for 30 years of debt??

Well to hell with her and this sick/broken society! They can all swim in their own shit as far as I’m concenred! And yes I’ll keep paying like a good NRP (No Rights Parent)…and then one day the money will STOP and I’ll be far away from this dump!

As for the anti-NRP brigade: you people have no idea what this is like! You do not have the slightest idea of the pain and suffering that is caused by these sick PWCs. They say that women do not have enough ‘rights’ in this country? Well they certainly have the right to destroy a man in seconds flat! So think about that one if you please!

Thanks

By: Brokenfather

Brokenfather — Mon, 01 Mar 2010 15:50:35 +0000

You have sympathies.

I havent seen my sons for almost 4 years now, I have no idea where they live, yet the mother who causes this still believes it’s her right to claim child support.

These worst of mothers have a win win situation, all supported by a free to use CSA ……