Ex lied to CMS so all of a sudden I owe thousands in arrears
March 3, 2017
Over the last 10 years odd ,my ex used the csa like a weapon on me if she wasn’t happy & totally in control ,I had many letters & calls from csa ,the 2 kids are now 28 & 26 ? I never ever paid to the csa tho,we had our own agreement all the time.In sep 2015 I got a letter out the blue from cms saying i owe £9,500 from 2006 ??? Never heard of this b4,I phoned cms & they said ignore it’s a mistake.
Then in feb 2016 got the same letter & told it’s correct & I owe it ? She has told them that 4 18 months I didn’t pay her which is lies,she asked for cash as it would affect her tax credits & stupidly did coz wanted to benefit her & kids, my case is going on still & I’m fighting it all the way as it’s basically fraud,,I had the kids 3 /4 nights a week over 10 years & cms saying shared access reduction doesn’t count as it’s too long ago ??? But they can send bill from 10 years ago & that’s fine,,
I would luv to hear off anyone in similar situation who could help with advice & info or someone who’s been through this same harrowing experience,18 months of hell up to now ? I’ve contacted my MP & getting a solicitor on board that will cost me £5k ish ,but knowledge is power & would be grateful of any help ??