Ex cheated the paternity test to avoid paying

May 19, 2010

I have battled with csa for my twins since november 2006. The claim went through the motions as my ex partner disposed his responsibilities to his children from the minute i was pregnant. Despite this csa had 2 court orders ccj and a charging order on property bailiff action you name it he refused paternity testing in court until june 06 where he was faced with paternity testing or lose his home. I informed csa he would fraud the test they assured me they had procedures in place for such cases and a more stringent test would be enforced if this occured. Testing went ahead he frauded the test i had endless calls and texts from him and new girlfriend bragging how he had got away with it.

Vey upset i contacted csa who advised me to report my allegations to the police which i did they took lengthy statement then that officer left division and i got a new officer who contacted csa to ask what would they normally do in such a situation they explained they had there own fraud team who deal with these scenarios. so i was told by the officer to get in touch with that team as that would be normal practice in order to arrange 2nd teat with agency where a member of staff would be present and me and him. However after many phone calls and complaints ireceived a lenghty letter telling me the only way this could be resolved now is if i take the case back to court as it was the court who upheld his appeal as he turned up in court with ID?

however no one in court could confirm he went for the test . I gave csa a statement for the court as they showed me photo of person who took the test i made it clear in the test this photo was not him . The statement nor the picture were put to the court csa sat back and did not voice any of what i had said .

My ex partner is a company director and i feel his status got him out of court and csa procedures. So here i am in 2010 still waiting to hear from legal services if i can have funding as i am a full time university student so that i can hopefully have a fair and honest test taken for the good of our twins who are nearly 4 and will undoubtly have questions in years to come and whilst he has the paper work to say he is not the father that would be so detrimental to the twins if they ever wanted to seek him out.

Justice is what i am after cant leave things as a lie the issue of money has taken a complete back seat for me now i never imagined this would be my issue with the csa.

Comments

16 Responses to “Ex cheated the paternity test to avoid paying”

  1. Brokenfather on May 19th, 2010 1:12 pm

    For the sake of your children why dont you try to find the real father.

  2. Amanda Dickinson on May 19th, 2010 2:02 pm

    For the sake of my children I have managed to get legal funding to get the truth for my children through the courts as their father has been happy to live a lie about his responsibilities. As for finding my childrens father I have always known who their father is and so has he its just a long road proving it but i will the truth always reveals…

  3. Brokenfather on May 20th, 2010 12:06 pm

    A DNA test doesn’t lie!

    Perhaps Jeremy Kyle can help?

  4. Amanda Dickinson on May 20th, 2010 8:56 pm

    Jeremy Kyle not a bad idea! you get lie detector test AND dna all in one are you prepared to do that? or shall we stick with courts or just be honest well thats not something you are prepared to do is it?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  5. Brokenfather on May 21st, 2010 5:19 am

    If you think I am your ex then you are very mistaken ……

  6. A. DICKINSON on May 21st, 2010 8:20 am

    LOL

  7. thetruthwillout on September 18th, 2010 5:35 am

    OMG I am atthe begining of this, see the pictures yesterday, said it wasnt him, got to wait to hear from there fraud department now, i’m going to be continuasly on there case after reading this. They disgust me how can they live with themselves

  8. mondo on April 3rd, 2011 11:24 pm

    your messed up! what about the children they always suffer they didnt ask for this why does it have to be like this?

  9. rach on April 5th, 2011 6:10 pm

    im sorry to break this to you but there is no way he could cheat the dna test you have to face up to the fact that he is not the father!!!

  10. Justice is served on May 3rd, 2011 1:31 pm

    I’m chuffed for you Ex. Finally a NRP who’s finally beat the corrupt and unjust system. I have no sympathy or your offspring that its seems you spawned in an attempt to claim money from this man.

    I sadly didnt think to have a fake stand in to take my test and I’m being stung for a one night stand, for some kid I will never or have any intention of ever seeing.

    Say what you want, your oppinion means nothing and I couldnt care less. When you’ve been abused and harrassed by the CSA as much as I say, there’s nothing you could say that would make me care one iota!

    Again, I commend you ex’s genius plan!

  11. Drex on May 23rd, 2011 7:53 am

    I find it strange that women are having kids with men who clearly don’t want the responsibilities that this entails..

    But never mind, they can go running to the state thugs and try and beat and threaten some money out of him..

    Your mistake, was having kids with someone who didnt want them..

    You, as a woman, have all the power..

    I guess you never heard of contraception?

  12. tam on September 29th, 2011 10:01 pm

    Hi Amanda must be really frustrating for you, are you any closer to gettin it sorted? My ex did see mine but then he got a new girlfriend who he got pregnant, he didnt want to admit he had a kid already so stopped seeing mine. Some people are complete scum, if there big enough to make a baby they should be big enough to pay for it!

    When csa came out they showed me the picture which was of him but i was so adamant he was the father and that he ex must of sent his brother to do the dna test they agreed to take it further, ended up in him and his brother being arrested (took over a year) and low and behold i was right, now waiting for a court date, can’t wait to go and watch the smug smile disapear when there facing prison!

    ignore the twat who says they can’t be rigged, it aint hard, anyone with half a brain could scam the dna test, i bet a lot have, and got away with it to, especially is the bird isn’t 100% sure

  13. lisa on November 20th, 2011 10:46 pm

    just been reading the comments on dna testing. lets get one thing straight here people, dna test results are based on the samples recieved to the labouratory. ie if a sample should arrive at a testing company, appearing to be yours with your name on it, the sample will be analysed and the result will be given to that sample and name. BUT should someone be able to get round your sample ie with a extra sample collection kit then they can swap your sample over, obviously if the sample is not court approved, and is a home kit this could be easy to do. Should the test be court approved i suggest you go to your own surgery and not alowe your ex to know the time date and place. as many people have friends working in medical places. Easy to get round if you know the right people. not only that the samples are posted in the nearest post box, so what happens if you wait by the post box for the postman, and retrieve the samples, swap the samples over to what you want the outcome to be. that then is your result with your name on it, and its court approved, job done. that is what you call a proper stitch up c**t. This does happen more then what the public are aware of. BE EXTREMLY CAREFUL WITH YOUR DNA SAMPLE arrangements, dont tell anyone!!!! you have been warned. hope this helps somebody, somewhere. the best testing company to use is LGC as all of the sample individual items are coded to one person, and one person only.

  14. Kyle on August 8th, 2012 2:38 pm

    I found this article whilst looking for info about faked dna testing, I have just discovered that after nearly 18 years of paying for a child that I new was not mine but the CSA DNA test said was, my ex wife has just admitted that she took my other child who was a year older, into the clinic and had his DNA tested in place of the child who I new was not mine, the CSA are not interested in justice, but only money, I have now spent 18 years suffering from not only my ex wifes lies and deciept but the finacial burden of another mans sexual encounter with my ex-wife. So where is the justice? any woman who wants children or who is stupid enough to get pregnant in society today should pay for their own off spring and not make cash cows out of men, death to the CSA is what I pray for on a daily basis.

  15. SANDRA OLSON on March 3rd, 2014 9:42 pm

    WANNA BET DNA CAN’T BE FRAUDED?? THIS IS AN UNREGULATED BUSINESS, NO VERIFIABLE STATS ON ERROR OR FRAUD AS NO LEGISLATION REQUIRING LABS TO REPORT OR INVESTIGATE. IF YOU HAVE A FEW BUCKS AND OR A FRIEND WHO WORKS THERE, ANYTHING CAN BE DONE. IT WAS DONE IN MY CASE TOO. HE EVEN TOOK HIS FRIEND A POLICE OFFICER IN WITH HIM IN CASE I CHALLENGED IT. HE REFUSED TO GO FOR TESTING IF I WAS THERE. I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT HAS BEEN DONE, BUT THE LAB HAS ABSOLUTELY REFUSED TO RELEASE THE FILE FOR INDEPENDENT REVIEW. IT IS ACTUALLY MY FILE, AND THEY DON’T WANT ME TO SEE IT. THEN THEY SET UP ANOTHER MAN AND FALISFIED THE DNA TEST TO TRY TO PROVE HE WAS THE FATHER, AFTER FIGHTING FOR YEARS, I GOT MY HANDS ON THE ELECTROGRAPHS, AND GUESS WHAT, THE PROFILES FOR MYSELF AND MY DAUGHTER ARE DIFFERENT . THIS TESTING IS NOT EVEN US, THE LABS NOW WON’T ANSWER

  16. SANDRA OLSON on March 3rd, 2014 10:53 pm

    until this industry has some sort of requirement to produce actual stats to support their accuracy claims, there will be all of us women, safely hidden from sight from any claim to justice. what has been done to me, has been done to this woman, and many more. and unless someone actually does something about it, it will continue to happen. women and children will be attacked as liars and sluts. men will procreate and walk. society, has to do something to change this. could this be you??

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