Ex acused me of abusing my sons
March 19, 2012
For the last 5 years I have been trying to deal with the CSA and its bullying tactics of trying to force me to give money that is not owed to my ex partner. I have asked numerous times for a judge to hear my case as the CSA just ignore all the information I present to them. I was due to start nurse training in 2007 so when we agreed on the settlement for the house I took 25% of the 50% i was entitled to in return for paying no maintenance during my nurse training.
At the end of my first year of nurse training my ex partner made 2 false allegations of physical abuse that I had assaulted my sons. I spent 9 months on bail was removed from nurse training for 1 year and when I returned I was then put back on the course 6 months, the lost 25% from the house and qualifying 18 months later than planned has cost me in the region of 50k to 60k.
I only started working in December last year but the CSA are bullying me for £500 a month payments plus arrears which is not due. They ignore the information I give them by phone, I have offered to post the documents that back these claims up I emailed a 3 page letter of complaint 6 weeks ago at the request of one of the csa agents which has never even been acknowledged, let alone acted upon.
I know live with a new partner and her 2 children, they refuse to take these 2 children in to consideration and continue to press for the full 20% of my earnings. I used to have shared care of my children until these allegation were made.
I then did not see them for 2 years and now only see them roughly once a fortnight. I am at the end of my tether once this attachment of earning starts we are not going to be able to pay our rent or bills and we are going to end up homeless and the csa just aren’t bothered, can you please help.