Comments on: Do I have to pay CSA for a one night stand? http://www.csahell.com/do-i-have-to-pay-csa-for-a-one-night-stand-259.html Child Support Agency Advice and Complaints Wed, 08 Feb 2012 18:38:26 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Lesley http://www.csahell.com/do-i-have-to-pay-csa-for-a-one-night-stand-259.html/comment-page-1#comment-16821 Lesley Thu, 02 Feb 2012 23:17:03 +0000 http://www.csahell.com/?p=259#comment-16821 Yes Joanna, how strange Mr Brettell (now Weeks or maybe Brettell again!!) didn't ring the police. That's because he is an absolute lier. This lady and Mr Brettell corresponded by text the following day and she has the records to prove this. He actually went on holiday that day so it leaves me wondering how he did that without his wallet!!!! Men such as this have no respect whatsoever for women or the children they create. What sort of person can ignore the existance of a new life they were responsible for, regardless of the circumstances. Mr Brettell was very difficult to trace but he was made aware of his son's existance as soon as possible and a whole year before the CSA caught up with him. He was described as one "friend" as the biggest bullshiter on the planet. The rather naive and unstreetwise young lady was just another triumph for this man who will always be regarded as the scum of the earth by everyone who knows the real truth about what happened on that unfortunate evening. The little boy he created is however very beautiful, very clever and loved with a passion inspite of his father. Yes Joanna, how strange Mr Brettell (now Weeks or maybe Brettell again!!) didn’t ring the police. That’s because he is an absolute lier. This lady and Mr Brettell corresponded by text the following day and she has the records to prove this. He actually went on holiday that day so it leaves me wondering how he did that without his wallet!!!! Men such as this have no respect whatsoever for women or the children they create. What sort of person can ignore the existance of a new life they were responsible for, regardless of the circumstances. Mr Brettell was very difficult to trace but he was made aware of his son’s existance as soon as possible and a whole year before the CSA caught up with him. He was described as one “friend” as the biggest bullshiter on the planet. The rather naive and unstreetwise young lady was just another triumph for this man who will always be regarded as the scum of the earth by everyone who knows the real truth about what happened on that unfortunate evening. The little boy he created is however very beautiful, very clever and loved with a passion inspite of his father.

]]> By: Joanna http://www.csahell.com/do-i-have-to-pay-csa-for-a-one-night-stand-259.html/comment-page-1#comment-16764 Joanna Thu, 02 Feb 2012 12:28:41 +0000 http://www.csahell.com/?p=259#comment-16764 I find it strange this lady apparently stole your wallet but no mention of going to the Police? I find it strange this lady apparently stole your wallet but no mention of going to the Police?

]]> By: Lesley http://www.csahell.com/do-i-have-to-pay-csa-for-a-one-night-stand-259.html/comment-page-1#comment-16316 Lesley Mon, 23 Jan 2012 14:16:53 +0000 http://www.csahell.com/?p=259#comment-16316 Mr Brettell needs to face up to his responsibilities. He created a new life that night and that child is the injured party not Mr Brettell. It's a basic human right to expect to know who fathered you regardless of the situation. Mr Brettell's account of the situation is based on absolute lies so everyone can feel sorry for him. He knew about his son's existance a whole year before the CSA caught up with him but he didn't want to know as it would have disrupted his life too much. The mother however, soldiered on, grauated from university and, contrary to "living a life on benefits", works full time bringing up the child on her own. If Mr Brettell had been more reasonable when he first was told about the child then the mother would never have contacted the CSA. This was NEVER NEVER about money - it was a way of getting Mr Brettell to wake up and act responsibly and ethically. It backfired obviously as he left the country within months of being contacted by the CSA and changed his name - what a coward. Mr Brettell needs to face up to his responsibilities. He created a new life that night and that child is the injured party not Mr Brettell. It’s a basic human right to expect to know who fathered you regardless of the situation. Mr Brettell’s account of the situation is based on absolute lies so everyone can feel sorry for him. He knew about his son’s existance a whole year before the CSA caught up with him but he didn’t want to know as it would have disrupted his life too much. The mother however, soldiered on, grauated from university and, contrary to “living a life on benefits”, works full time bringing up the child on her own. If Mr Brettell had been more reasonable when he first was told about the child then the mother would never have contacted the CSA. This was NEVER NEVER about money – it was a way of getting Mr Brettell to wake up and act responsibly and ethically. It backfired obviously as he left the country within months of being contacted by the CSA and changed his name – what a coward.

]]> By: mischach http://www.csahell.com/do-i-have-to-pay-csa-for-a-one-night-stand-259.html/comment-page-1#comment-13598 mischach Sat, 03 Dec 2011 15:10:56 +0000 http://www.csahell.com/?p=259#comment-13598 When you say we and our, I am assuming you now have a new partner? Why not leave the poor guy alone. When you say we and our, I am assuming you now have a new partner? Why not leave the poor guy alone.

]]> By: alexislondon http://www.csahell.com/do-i-have-to-pay-csa-for-a-one-night-stand-259.html/comment-page-1#comment-11463 alexislondon Sat, 14 May 2011 09:57:33 +0000 http://www.csahell.com/?p=259#comment-11463 We are trying to get csa for our daughter but we dont have the fathers date of birth and we believe he has left the country can we still claim with out date of birth and once he returns? We are trying to get csa for our daughter but we dont have the fathers date of birth and we believe he has left the country can we still claim with out date of birth and once he returns?

]]> By: Ian Harvey http://www.csahell.com/do-i-have-to-pay-csa-for-a-one-night-stand-259.html/comment-page-1#comment-3881 Ian Harvey Wed, 06 Oct 2010 19:48:29 +0000 http://www.csahell.com/?p=259#comment-3881 sorry but you have to sorry but you have to

]]> By: ray http://www.csahell.com/do-i-have-to-pay-csa-for-a-one-night-stand-259.html/comment-page-1#comment-1247 ray Thu, 03 Dec 2009 18:54:09 +0000 http://www.csahell.com/?p=259#comment-1247 Hi, Almost exactly the same thing happened to me many years ago. It is important not to lose faith. The CSA was a bad idea open to abuse by this kind of woman. Give me a shout to find out how to live a normal happy life without worrying about her and the CSA. Cheers Ray Hi,

Almost exactly the same thing happened to me many years ago. It is important not to lose faith. The CSA was a bad idea open to abuse by this kind of woman.
Give me a shout to find out how to live a normal happy life without worrying about her and the CSA.

Cheers

Ray

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