Do I have to pay CSA for a one night stand?
November 28, 2009
Some 2 years ago I had a very druken 1 night stand with a girl I had never met before, I woke up in the morning and she and my wallet was missing! I kicked myself for days about this and couldnt beleive I had been robbed by a girl that seemed to be nice (maybe a bit rough).
18 MONTHS later after completely forgetting about this druken mistake the csa contacted me at work to say I was a father and would have to pay for a child I knew nothing about!
I have taken the DNA test and the child is mine, I have no clue who the mother is apart from the name on the form they sent me. This girl must have been planning to get pregnent and took my wallet as a way of tracking me if she feel pregnent, how can this be allowed to happen? Why should I pay for a child that has been made simply so the mother can have a life on benefits?
I have just had to tell the women I am in a relationship with and it has broken her heart as we have just found out she has cancer……………
The CSA do not care that I am now struggling to pay our bills on my own and are demanding I pay £240 per month. I feel like ending my life but need to try and be strong for my partner.
Does anyone have a way out for me, I’m desprate………….
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Hi,
Almost exactly the same thing happened to me many years ago. It is important not to lose faith. The CSA was a bad idea open to abuse by this kind of woman.
Give me a shout to find out how to live a normal happy life without worrying about her and the CSA.
Cheers
Ray