I feel cheated by the CSA

July 31, 2015

I claimed for my daughter when she was 2 yrs old and now she is 15. We were on then they called it the old system.

throughout all the years my ex husband payed one payment of £ 100 and thought that was really bad. Last year he died and the csa closed the case. I contacted the csa on numerous occasions to ask why no payment had been made they would say they would chase it up but they never did. I would contact them every month and got the same replay I was going round in circles every time. It never got solved and he got away with it every time.

The CSA’s policy is so unfair

July 30, 2015

The CSA`S policy sucks big time. I have from 4 children from a previous relationship, which there father died when the woungest were 7 weeks old. I gave up my job to bring my children up. I MARRIED MY HUSBAND TWO YEARS AGO AND HE WAS UNEMPLOYED DUE TO PERSONAL REASONS AND AN UGLY SEPARATION from his ex-partner.He has not been allowed to see his son since he was three, he is now 11. He got a new job in March and now the csa are demanding a cut of his wages for a child he is not allowed to see. In effect we were actually finacially better off when we where both unemployed. We are raising 4 teenagers and his ex-partner earne more money than we both do combined.So can ANYONE out there tell me how this is fair? This is affecting all of our family. Oh and by the way , in the 10 years that my 13 years that my childrens father was dead….does that mean that I should have been GIVEN money from the csa, after all he was still absent!I hate this system.

CSA are so unhelpful

July 29, 2015

I’m a parent with care my ex has never paid my csa correctly ever since he walked out on me and the children 13 yrs ago . I went to the cas to try and get maintance for my children i got told it would take 12 weeks so went a haed with it . I started with regaul payments but as the months went past i never recieved payment so i asked for attachment of earning which they got and the payments started up again untill two mounths ago . I have phoned them and i keep getting told the same 7 to 10 days the payments were due to go into my bank . so this week yet again nothing in my bank and now the csa owe me £900 pounds .Which i don’t think i will seea penny of it . How can the CSA do this to people with children that need things . Can anyone help please !

I don’t get paid maintenance because Ex’s ex is lying to CSA

July 28, 2015

Csa are useless, my ex husband was with a girl 14 years ago, who fell pregnant and never said a word until she went into labour at 33 weeks. She’d been caught with another man. This lead to suspicions regarding parentage. When my husband I got together, he was painting and decorating and it wasn’t lucrative. He still paid her £40 per week, and I bought clothes and outfits for the child plus my own child. She would strip the little girl in the street and fling the clothes back at us. When we got our own house (rented) and had a daughter she rang hurling abuse etc regularly, trying to keep the peace I arranged a meeting for my ex to see the child. We met and she demanded my sons pram as apparently we had loads of money, my ex was out sick with suspected TB or worse (biopsy’s were done) and I had a 1 year old. She rang later that day and screamed down the phone that the child wasn’t his anyway with numerous other vulgar things said. He stopped paying her direct and we went and seen a solicitor who told us the only way the court will pay for DNA was for him to attempt visitation and her to deny it and thus him take her to court to prove the child is his.. She refused dna and visitation and then proceeded to have my ex husband held at gunpoint (not sure if these were fake or real) he was told to stay away or else.

We had a daughter and set up our family life, for 10 years. After this we amicable separated and he paid me maintenance every month for our daughter and my son (his stepson, but he’d raised him from a baby) this was his choice and he sent the amount which was reasonable, not flash but not ridiculous. Last year he received a letter stating he owed £20000 in arrears from this ex and it was to be deducted from earnings at 40% he earns £16000 a year, he hasn’t seen the child declared not his in 13 years and had nothing no letters, no complaints nothing in that time that would of led us to believe the pwc had lied about parentage. Now I’m getting nothing not a bean because he has major deductions from his wage slip that leaves him with barely enough to pay his rent, he can’t afford to have our two children every weekend anymore because he can’t afford to feed them or things (my choice) he sees them as much as he can, but this has taken a severe toll on him and our two children and me. We aren’t together but we are friends and I help with his admin etc. so I know his financial situation is correct.

The Csa won’t take our daughter into consideration because I won’t have that deducted from his wage too.. We tried to get them to take her into consideration to reduce the current outgoing amount so that my daughter didn’t suffer as a consequence. She has now thou, I’m a mature student and the maintenance I received helped ensure my daughter had the basics such as pe trainers, feminine products, coat and the such to ease the burden on me as a single mum studying.

The Csa are a bunch of money raping idiots, who persecute every person as if they were the worst in the world. They don’t consider that my sons bio dad is a waste of space on £50000 a year and gets away without seeing his son or paying and yet my ex husband tried so hard to spare £50 so my children could have the basics.

Just to note his ex has 5 kids with 5 different dads and apparently had them all threatened and then took them for as much as she could get 2000 pm in maintenance… Justify that?

I feel sorry for men and women.. Parents who don’t care need to pay up, men that want to see there kids need to be allowed and women who lie to Csa need strung up!

Recently made contact with my dad and he owes 20 years of CSA pay

July 27, 2015

My name is kylie fildes my maiden name is kylie gregory I have recently made contact with my father nigel roy gregory who I hadnt seen since I was 3 years old when he moved to holland with his second wife he has been living there since.

My mum tried to seek csa payment from him in 1992/93 but the csa couldnt trace him as he was no longer in the uk. We have recieved no financial support from him and have lived in a small council house all our lives while he has been able to start a new life in holland he buys a new car every 5 yrs and has bought his own 4 bedroom house he has lived a good life while me and my mum have struggled with my 2 other siblings who are also nigel gregorys children.

I am looking for some help or information on what will happen as he owes 3 children 20yrs of support which he accepts no responsibility for. It disgusting. If you need his address and tel no we are willing to give it to you.

Thanks kylie fildes.

I would like to contact my father through the CSA

July 26, 2015

My father and his ex had a baby which he has never met. And I have never had contact with. But I know he pays CSA money. I just wondered is there any chance, you have any contact information I could have to get in touch.

As I would like contact with my half sister/brother. My father won’t tell me anything or give me any information or contact details. Is this a possibility on your behalf?

I would be so grateful if you could help me. You can contact me via this email. Thank you.

Ex is now deceased but still can’t get money back from CSA

July 25, 2015

I have been paying the csa for many years now direct from earnings having never missed a payment.

I called the CSA late last year to inform them that my 17 year old daughter was no longer in education and had been employed for a year and also she no longer lived with her mother who was recieving the money.

The CSA investigsted ( checked to see if the mother was claiming child benefit, which she was), investigation complete, I still pay.

The CSA had been in touch recently to tell me that the case closed in November 14 and that I had overpaid and would be reimbursed. I was even asked if I wanted the money back.

Today i got a call to be told that I was not entitled to any money back as my noy 18 year old was still classed as a child as the mother claimed child benefit for her. The mother is now deceased and cannot answer the questions.
Result, no refund. Is this correct?

Can never get through to the CSA

July 24, 2015

I’ve been trying to call about the case of my son and it’s always busy and if i don’t call within the certain amount of days it’s going to supposedly be my fault can someone ring me asap. I am working from 2 till half ten every night thus week so needs to be in the morning before 2 in the afternoon!

This is becoming a joke just to get hold of you and it’s costing me a fortune keep trying to ring

Credit cards maxed and a loan to pay CSA

July 23, 2015

I used to pay my ex privately even when she wasn’t letting me see my children. I then decided enough was enough and went through court. The case has now been going on for 18months and has cost me 14k due to her bumping my fees and making ludicrous accusations that where taken VERY seriously. I stopped paying her her maintenance because court was obviously costing Read more

Ex owes thousands and CSA is ignoring it

July 22, 2015

Well JAMES MARK PURVIS who did not pay for his dead son with DMD, also his daughter who is 18, and did not pay for his two previous grown up sons has avoided paying CSA for years! MARK PURVIS IS ANOTHER NAME HE USES, BORN 20.03.65 AND LIVES IN NORTH TYNESIDE SOMEWHERE HAS ALL THE TRICKS. CSA HAVE WRITTEN OFF AT LEAST 10,000.HE STILL OWES THOUSANDS.

WHY ANY MAN WANTS TO AVOID THIS IS BEYOND ME……THIS MAN SAID THAT DLA FOR DISABLED SON MEANT HE DID NOT HAVE TO PAY C.S.A SO CONTACT HIM , HE IS LIVING WITH A WOMAN CALLED ANGELA, WHAT A CATCH SHE HAS ON HER HANDS. I AM SURE THIS MAN WILL GIVE YOU ALL YOU WANT TO KNOW IN HOW TO AVOID PAYMENT, AND THIS IS NOT SLANDER AS IT IS TRUE AND HE KNOWS IT.

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