CSA won’t chase lying exes for money for our children

March 1, 2017

I have 2 ex that don’t pay for there children 1 asnt payed in years because he’s self employed my daughter is 16 in matter of days he also owes thousands in back pay which I can’t see getting. My 2 boys dad asnt payed in mouths which when csa was involed he knocked his hours down to part time which I believe was a lie as if he knocked his hours down he would be able to see his kids more which he seen in twice this year.

More to pointI thought csa was here to help to make the other parent pay so but I see it all the time people having kids don’t pay for them then move on and have more kids or sometimes I have phone call from csa asking if I’d like there help which I say yes for them to say they can’t help with my daughter’s dad because 1 they can’t find him which may I say my daughter up 2 a year and half ago didn’t see him I found him on Facebook but csa couldn’t find him we met up and for him to say he got csa letters but chose to ignore then think something needs changing.

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  • kevin sherwood says:

    I pay for my kids my ex and I had a mutual arrangement where all would be paid for the girls individually .I 2012 i worked at olympics and worked away for 6 weeks and made good pay ,note always provided for my children whatever they need as was the agreed arrangement .Cam home from the games all the bills to pay had a letter from as it was then csa ,20% of whAT I earned at the olympics then a amount of 20% off my gross every month.From an ex whom said she would never do that .From that day forward its all been about how much she can suck out of you .Love my kids to bits but the 20% off the gross is killing me .My ex now lives in a big 5 bedroom house and has 5 kids ,3 different fathers all paying her child support and then all the tax credits on top .
    How fare is this i now have moved from a 3 bedroom hous now down to a 1 bedroom flat.
    I would say now to any man before entering into any relations with a woman to get in writing in the event of a pregnancy there would be no other agencies involved and that a mutual arrangement would be made that is both fair to both parents
    Tat would be too easy .I see that some women go on about dead beat dads well a lot of them are surely deadbeat through the unfair practices of the former CSA and now still the same old record same buildings just a change of name .
    fOR ALL THE GAYS OR INDIVIDUALS FEELING HARD DONE BY BY THE SYSTEM ,TRY BEING A NORMAL HETEROSEXUAL MAN WISHING ONLY TO PROVIDE FAIRLY FOR HIS CHILDREN WITHOUT LIVING ON THE BREADLINE TO BE BLED DRY BY AN EX WITH A AGENDA TO DESTRO THE MAN WHO HELPED HER MAKE TWO WONDERFUL KIDS.
    BRITISH JUSTICE . …..LAUGHABLE

  • King Canute says:

    Get a job and stop leeching off everybody else. The kids are your responsibility, too. Nobody forced you to get pregnant. JOB

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