the dad off the 3 girls took us all on years ago let them call him dad…soon as he left that all changed he broughtthem up from baby too..sad for them really…now i just think if i ever find someone else itll be a friend that will be role model but not dad…better that way they wont feel let down by dad figure again….

as for the csa they already knw im claiming tax credits? so what do i do now……

if I meet someone then I wont tell them and he can claim tax credits on my behalf then one way out offt his mess….

as for overtime ? how can i not tell them they phe work to find out my wages in it????

it ll be on my wage slips???

new tax year starts soon??? april so my wage slips start again then Ive just start payin so do bit overtime after they have assessed it then after 6 mths they do it again then they leave it another 6mth to year……..

so ill be doin overtime now til end march then im stopping?

as for my tax credits im not goin to claim it for few mths then Ill claim it at later date…thatll reduce his money lol I hate my ex hes money mad…I just wanna pay my way not get greedy…like some poeple……

hes probly goin down bookies again… with my money he likes horses he wasted 4000 off our money I caught him tryin to win it back tried to stop him but he went behind my back doin it? shame really just finished relationship off even more than his racist comments about colour off my skin…..

his new girlfriend is his best mate mans wifes twin sister too…and his best mate like dogs so Im thinkin yeah my money aint goin on the kids….

when they did visit they were always in the clothes i gave him when they had to be handed over in end they had holes in etc etc….when i had to pay him money then he did manage to get them new coats so it made me feel better……

as for presents i gave them he throw them at me in street and said he didnt want pack*** cloths in his house? wtf*** I bought them from bloody peacocks they were so nice I got them skinny legging and long woolie bright stylish jumpers that covered them up they had little dolly shoes too..they picked them out…

so that upset my kids i told the eldest off the 3 to tell daddy you want them and you can wear them coz you choice them and mummy bought them us for present for eid….

so wat do I do stop claimin tax credits for few mths…then reclaim not tell them wont they find out im claiming it?

my new name Ive changed to sl

they knw me as my old english name and my husbands sirname? ha

as for if i get married Im not tellin them shit or about him or my new married name either so how do i hide my over time then

so I need to knw can i take them to court? over rule them in court with maintaince order

how do I hide my overtime coz Im now 800 pounds overdrawn and need to work my arse off to catch up or Im in more debt than ever

how do I get out off them not knwin about tax credits etc?

I might give up my job soon Lm better off on dole at this rate….Ive been told by job center Im better off not working at min? joke or wat?

I dont like been sit at home mum on dole never eva..boring like my daughters to learn that you have to work to keep ur kids not be pram pusher ya knw wat I mean…but all Im teachin them at min is working and havin ex like that is your husband takes urs kids off you coz he didnt like you managin without him and keepin you job with five kids….

he only got kids coz police told me to change the locks on my house that I used to own but becoz I did that they arrested me anyway? the world is fuk up coz his name was on the bloody mortage he had rights ????? wtf!!!!!! the police new wat was goin on but the co said he felt sorry for me but had to do wat he had to do…B*********d

any ideas people ????

If your ex is father to your two daughters that live with you, have you claim child maintenance from him?