Feb 2005
Case began Feb 2005, agreement between both solicitors at time was I would pay £400 per month to ex wife for child maintenance until CSA got their assessment completed, dealt with in Court.
Jun 2005
A dispute developed between CSA and I when they suggested that I had amassed arrears in the region of £1500. After many lengthy conversations between my ex wife and CSA and including letters from both parties solicitors at the time the CSA then removed this amount from the account, I was told! (Michelle CSA). Payments were set at £414 per month
Jun 2006
After many months of telephone conversation ‘Shared Care’ kicked in and my payments were reduced by CSA to £360.
Mar 2008
All was content for many months until my ex during a financial settlement was seeking financial support from me and she made a claim in Court that I wasn’t paying her full CSA. I contacted the CSA on the 14 Mar 2008 to clarify the situation and according to their records, I was fully paid up to date, paying the correct amount and there were no arrears.
Within the next few months of this, I don’t know when, my ex had denied receiving £400 per month from me that I was initially paying before the CSA got their calculations completed, I was contacted by CSA again saying I owed them £1227. I forwarded the letter I had received from the CSA dated 18 Mar 2008 and I was told by CSA that the letter was incorrect and I should not have received it and they also said that I should have been paying £414.
I pointed out the fact that I had paid the amount requested by CSA after they had done their ‘Shared Care’ calculation. Again I was told by the CSA I was incorrect. I stuck to what I was told to pay by the CSA which included ‘Shared Care’ and they stuck by their story that every thing I received from they prior they said was incorrect and denied that anyone within CSA had ever told me to pay £360 based on ‘Shared Care’.
Sep2008
The CSA applied a DOE for their amount to come from my wages including the arrears they added.
Nov 2008
One of my sons moved in with me on a full time basis, I contacted the CSA and they completed a further DOE with a reduction for my son living with me.

However the dispute over the arrears continued and I was going round in circles, never getting the same person twice.
Apr2009
I decided to go the small claims court and a date was set on the 29 Apr 2009. I met up with representatives of the CSA, they assured me that ‘no way did I owe any arrears and that they would personally see that this would be sorted out. I took them at their word and the case didn’t go ahead.
29 Apr 2010
Upon my return home from the court in my house was a letter from the CSA saying I owed them £3151. I made contact with Allen Mills and he assured me it was all a mistake that it was now in their Scotland office and he would sort it out and don’t worry about it.

From that day to now I’ve going round in circles with the CSA.

Data Protection Act 1998
May 2009
In the mean time I got all my information from the CSA under the Data Protection Act and its clear from the information within those documents that they knew the initials payments of £400 per month had been paid as my ex had actually told them they were being paid monthly on May 2005.
Also it was well documented that I had been told to pay £360 per month based on ‘Shared Care’. I know this started on the 17th May 2006 as I’ve written this at work however despite a second request for information under the Data Protection Act, I haven’t received this notification I received by phone from Phyllis Watson at CSA. Further to this, I requested a Direct Debit form and they posted this out to me with the value on it of £360.

I paid the CSA what I was told to pay, because of someone’s mess I got stung with arrears from somewhere.

During all this wrangling, I’ve received 2 separate payments (May 2009, £100 & 2 Dec 2009 £75) from CSA for ‘maladministration’ but in no way would this compensate for being treated as a liar, having a DOE imposed on me, the time and expense in dealing with the CSA which seems to be a bottomless pit of individuals and the stress and strain.

I beleive they do their upmost to put people out of work or kill them.

the dad off the 3 girls took us all on years ago let them call him dad…soon as he left that all changed he broughtthem up from baby too..sad for them really…now i just think if i ever find someone else itll be a friend that will be role model but not dad…better that way they wont feel let down by dad figure again….

as for the csa they already knw im claiming tax credits? so what do i do now……

if I meet someone then I wont tell them and he can claim tax credits on my behalf then one way out offt his mess….

as for overtime ? how can i not tell them they phe work to find out my wages in it????

it ll be on my wage slips???

new tax year starts soon??? april so my wage slips start again then Ive just start payin so do bit overtime after they have assessed it then after 6 mths they do it again then they leave it another 6mth to year……..

so ill be doin overtime now til end march then im stopping?

as for my tax credits im not goin to claim it for few mths then Ill claim it at later date…thatll reduce his money lol I hate my ex hes money mad…I just wanna pay my way not get greedy…like some poeple……

hes probly goin down bookies again… with my money he likes horses he wasted 4000 off our money I caught him tryin to win it back tried to stop him but he went behind my back doin it? shame really just finished relationship off even more than his racist comments about colour off my skin…..

his new girlfriend is his best mate mans wifes twin sister too…and his best mate like dogs so Im thinkin yeah my money aint goin on the kids….

when they did visit they were always in the clothes i gave him when they had to be handed over in end they had holes in etc etc….when i had to pay him money then he did manage to get them new coats so it made me feel better……

as for presents i gave them he throw them at me in street and said he didnt want pack*** cloths in his house? wtf*** I bought them from bloody peacocks they were so nice I got them skinny legging and long woolie bright stylish jumpers that covered them up they had little dolly shoes too..they picked them out…

so that upset my kids i told the eldest off the 3 to tell daddy you want them and you can wear them coz you choice them and mummy bought them us for present for eid….

so wat do I do stop claimin tax credits for few mths…then reclaim not tell them wont they find out im claiming it?

my new name Ive changed to sl

they knw me as my old english name and my husbands sirname? ha

as for if i get married Im not tellin them shit or about him or my new married name either so how do i hide my over time then

so I need to knw can i take them to court? over rule them in court with maintaince order

how do I hide my overtime coz Im now 800 pounds overdrawn and need to work my arse off to catch up or Im in more debt than ever

how do I get out off them not knwin about tax credits etc?

I might give up my job soon Lm better off on dole at this rate….Ive been told by job center Im better off not working at min? joke or wat?

I dont like been sit at home mum on dole never eva..boring like my daughters to learn that you have to work to keep ur kids not be pram pusher ya knw wat I mean…but all Im teachin them at min is working and havin ex like that is your husband takes urs kids off you coz he didnt like you managin without him and keepin you job with five kids….

he only got kids coz police told me to change the locks on my house that I used to own but becoz I did that they arrested me anyway? the world is fuk up coz his name was on the bloody mortage he had rights ????? wtf!!!!!! the police new wat was goin on but the co said he felt sorry for me but had to do wat he had to do…B*********d

any ideas people ????

If your ex is father to your two daughters that live with you, have you claim child maintenance from him?