Comments on: CSA want me to pay arrears when I wasn’t working http://www.csahell.com/csa-want-me-to-pay-arrears-when-i-wasnt-working-530.html Child Support Agency Advice and Complaints Wed, 08 Feb 2012 18:38:26 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: bradytes http://www.csahell.com/csa-want-me-to-pay-arrears-when-i-wasnt-working-530.html/comment-page-1#comment-2324 bradytes Fri, 21 May 2010 18:23:47 +0000 http://www.csahell.com/?p=530#comment-2324 why does everyone assume the man is just some irresponsible git who has upped and left because he lacks maturity and morals? My partner and the most wonderful daddy to our daughter, left his ex after she had sordid sex with his best mate. I think that was pretty justified. Since then she's behaved in the same vicious revengeful way towards him. Their child wears rags because child care is quite a long way down on her list. Her elder daughter from a previous man is aged 17 and expecting her second child. These women trap men, get pregnant then use them as a meal ticket via the csa. My partner was unemployed for 3 years and was single for that time but the csa want 10k arrears from him. So, go figure that! I hate the csa and i equally hate the sorts of loose women who trap men and use them. Hopefully why does everyone assume the man is just some irresponsible git who has upped and left because he lacks maturity and morals? My partner and the most wonderful daddy to our daughter, left his ex after she had sordid sex with his best mate. I think that was pretty justified. Since then she’s behaved in the same vicious revengeful way towards him. Their child wears rags because child care is quite a long way down on her list. Her elder daughter from a previous man is aged 17 and expecting her second child. These women trap men, get pregnant then use them as a meal ticket via the csa. My partner was unemployed for 3 years and was single for that time but the csa want 10k arrears from him. So, go figure that! I hate the csa and i equally hate the sorts of loose women who trap men and use them. Hopefully

]]> By: Athena http://www.csahell.com/csa-want-me-to-pay-arrears-when-i-wasnt-working-530.html/comment-page-1#comment-1723 Athena Sun, 14 Mar 2010 20:55:37 +0000 http://www.csahell.com/?p=530#comment-1723 How is this not fair? If you begin a relationship with someone who has children, surely you take on some responsibility for those children? If a man isn't working but living off his partner, even though he has children somewhere else, who is going to support them....or perhaps once he leaves one set of children and has another, you think that those first children no longer cost any money? That it's okay for them to go without so long as his new children are happy and cared for? This kind of double standard makes me sick and women who get themselves pregnant to men who don't support the children they already have are both selfish and foolish. Selfish because they're basically saying it's okay to go round fathering children and then leaving them in poverty. Foolish because if he didn't support the first lot, why would he treat the next lot any differently? How is this not fair? If you begin a relationship with someone who has children, surely you take on some responsibility for those children? If a man isn’t working but living off his partner, even though he has children somewhere else, who is going to support them….or perhaps once he leaves one set of children and has another, you think that those first children no longer cost any money? That it’s okay for them to go without so long as his new children are happy and cared for?

This kind of double standard makes me sick and women who get themselves pregnant to men who don’t support the children they already have are both selfish and foolish. Selfish because they’re basically saying it’s okay to go round fathering children and then leaving them in poverty. Foolish because if he didn’t support the first lot, why would he treat the next lot any differently?

]]> By: Elizabeth Cook http://www.csahell.com/csa-want-me-to-pay-arrears-when-i-wasnt-working-530.html/comment-page-1#comment-1594 Elizabeth Cook Thu, 04 Mar 2010 23:50:51 +0000 http://www.csahell.com/?p=530#comment-1594 Yes unfortunately it is legal. I even got my Labour MP involved who wrote to them explaining it was dispicable they were forcing my children to pay for my husbands child as he wasn't working but they made her look completely stupid when they wrote back explaining it was her government who made the law that allowed them to do just that! Despite the fact that we get those CTC because we have children not husbands....and we have been deemed poor enough to be eligible...makes me sick! Did you also know if you don't tell them you get tax credits they cannot go behind your back and ask the DWP for your details. You have to actually tell them you get tax credits even if it's on the phone then they can. Grrrr! Yes unfortunately it is legal. I even got my Labour MP involved who wrote to them explaining it was dispicable they were forcing my children to pay for my husbands child as he wasn’t working but they made her look completely stupid when they wrote back explaining it was her government who made the law that allowed them to do just that! Despite the fact that we get those CTC because we have children not husbands….and we have been deemed poor enough to be eligible…makes me sick! Did you also know if you don’t tell them you get tax credits they cannot go behind your back and ask the DWP for your details. You have to actually tell them you get tax credits even if it’s on the phone then they can.

Grrrr!

]]> By: chall http://www.csahell.com/csa-want-me-to-pay-arrears-when-i-wasnt-working-530.html/comment-page-1#comment-1562 chall Sun, 28 Feb 2010 17:00:28 +0000 http://www.csahell.com/?p=530#comment-1562 Hi l sto, On CS2, child tax credits are deemed as income of the non resident parent. Hi l sto,

On CS2, child tax credits are deemed as income of the non resident parent.

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