CSA said I owe more money as I never see my son
January 22, 2013
I’ve just received a call from the csa saying I haven’t paid or had my son over night all year !!
About 2 Years ago this started with my sons mum ringing the csa but I caught her out, long story short I had a child with a arsehole she’s a good mum but not a nice person.
When we split 4 years ago I set up a standing order for 40 pounds a week as my father advised me to, a few months later she phoned me asking for me to stop as someone had sent her a letter asking why is Mr Scott putting money into your bank account, so I guessed she was claiming a the same time, she told me she lied and told them owed her money !!
So then every week I would give her cash in her hand and did for about a year solid I would buy clothes as well and give her more if she was gong on holiday with my son. I have my son every week for a night due to never been able to have him longer as she says she missers him too much.
For years I got ear ache about the hours I did and never being around when something was going on at school etc so I left I could never win went on the jobs seekers for 9 months had no money coming in but seeing my boy more through the week he come round for tea etc.
But that all stopped and I received a letter from her solicitor saying just have contact with your son as normal on a Friday night till Saturday night I thought ok but then got a call from the csa the same day saying you owe money and never see your son !!
I said I had just got a letter saying different from her solicitor, he then rang her and rang me back saying she’s now saying that I had just started seeing him !! It’s like how many times do women lie !! It’s hard enough being a part time dad without the lies about money !!
That’s why I quit I worked and got stick but then got more stick, she sometimes dosent let me see him for a few weeks if we have a fall out so why should I continue to give her money if I can’t see him!! The csa don’t know what’s really happening in these cases.
I’m working at the moment I will be quiting my job as soon as there try take any thing from me