CSA refuses to cancel claim even though my ex wants them to
January 15, 2010
hi, where to start, erm..
i am a self employed contractor who was in a relationship soon to be married, my partner fell pregnant and i then had an afair with another lady, this ohter lady told me she was on the pill and decided NOT to tell me she was stopping the pill, she also fell pregnant, she knew i was never going to leave my partner for her so tried to trap me by having a baby, she has sent text after text saying how she will not go to the csa as she does not need or want the money, but now she has gone through the csa and started the claim, she has also got other people to text me abusive and threating text i have told the police about these and have a crime ref. can i/ do i inform the csa of this???
she also yesterday sent me a text “scott im going to ring the csa tomorrow and try to cancel my claim against you. you cant afford to pay, i dont want your money and dont need it. i rung them out of revenge. that way you wont even have to think about your child.”
then today “i called csa they wont cancel the calim”
what do i do???