They call it back pay, I call it robbery

August 9, 2017

I have had two children, one is 28 yrs and the other is 33 yrs and I am still paying child support they call it back pay I call it robbery, they have been taking 250.00 from my wages for 7 years with no proof I am the dad they are only charging me for one child and I have two of them I would love to go to court but can’t afford it, I have been to prison, for four years, I am not on the birth certificate and all of this has been going on since 1996 and its still going on I have thought about ending my life, but then they win and I loose CAN ANYBODY HELP ME PLEASE

The more I earn, the more they take

August 4, 2017

I havent seen my children in 5 years, my ex has an order on me thru false information, im currently paying 130 perweek and have had to leave my flat, sell my car, and give up lots of things, i have no bother paying for them even tho it would be nice to see them, im 6000 in arrears as the payments are getting higher, i cant afford to pay, now im renting a room at 30 per week and am barely affording to live myself, im on debt up to my eyeballs and seriously struggling, she has a new boyfriend and the child maintenance service have literally said they dont care about me.

I know that the payments i make are going on drink and drugs and now they have a DEO that im now stuck with…the more i earn the more they take….what the hell am i supposed to live off

Does owning 3 businesses affect how much CSA you pay

August 21, 2016

I am enquiring on behalf of my girlfriend, she is looking to use CSA against her former boyfriend. He has his own businesses but presumably only pays himself enough in wages to avoid paying much tax.

Would you happen to know if owning 3 businesses would have any effect on the amount of CSA payable? I wonder whether the value/assets of the businesses are taken into account.

I would really appreciate your help in this matter.

Many thanks,

Ex stopped him seeing his son when he got a new partner

August 20, 2016

I myself have never called csa for money off my sons dad Purley because he’s never wanted to bother but my story is about my partner and it absolutely breaks My heart so if anyone could help please please please reply…

The mother took everything away from him when she cheated and he walked in. That’s where it all broke down.. he then pulled the engagement ring off her finger she then manipulated the situation and got him locked up over night and a restraint order on him.. he was seeing his child regularly and all was fine until he got a new girlfriend….

She then stopped him seeing him demanded money that she would spend on other things than their child.. he stopped paying. Regularly I see him break down because he can not see his child! It makes me sick how Read more

Loop hole means my ex doesn’t have to pay CSA

July 18, 2016

Csa said they had no jurisdiction on getting my sons father to pay because he works in private security earning a whopping 4500 per month and tax free but due to the loop hole in the English law system this is how dads get away with paying anything at all including tax.

Please help me get this loop hole closed so that all dads and mums who work out of the country but hold a uk passport and are from here legally have to pay so their children can have shoes that fit their little growing feet. Clothes that fit their growing bodies. Be warm. Have food in the fridge that helps them grow and learn and have the life they deserve.

From a hard working mum to a beautiful growing boy

Husband’s ex did a runner, now CSA wants money from him

July 16, 2016

My husband has 3 children by his first partner who paid for 4months then did a runner she owes an historic debt of 80+ thousand his he had a disabled child with his second partner who also has not paid.

He has paid for the agency to chase payments and they cant locate her with all that is available to the government this person cannot be found yet today he has been sent a letter asking him to pay £25.71 a week for child he has a residence order since 2009.

Need help and info for ombudsman asap please the csa have had the details for both absent parents yet have taken so long to get the case sorted they ended up moving away this department has so many resources available but they never use then it is a total shambles

Ex has everything while I have nothing

June 19, 2016

I was unemployed for a time and when i started work the csa aid i was in arrears because of this so i started the case in arrears they didnt tell me till i started back at work . And then wanted extra money off me because i was unemployed now my arrears has built up because i have changed jobs again and they dont take into account the debt ive got because of my ex wife .

While she has a caravan goes away on holidays has a lovely house and a car i have a one bedroom flat and a misserable life why cant this be fair?

CSA wants money I do not have

June 16, 2016

I earn around £350 a month and the csa want £576 a month. they have said I haven’t given them 2 payslips when I have only received 0ne payment they have said the 30 days notice is up and I have to take them to court. in the meantime they have said I still have to make that payment of £576 which is impossible.

their is a lot more info.

can you help

My Ex shouldn’t even be in the UK, never mind using the CSA

March 18, 2016

I had a case opened up by my ex. We had a family based arrangement. However, she decided this wasn’t working for her so decided to contact CMS.

They assessed that I should be paying considerably less than I was paying (which made me laugh). However for a case that was opened in February this year and with Read more

Not received payments for August

August 28, 2015

I have not received my payment for this month August 2015. every time I ring to find out what is happening I keep being told it’s being dealt with. I rang Tuesday 25th August and was told more information was needed from the employer, the lady promised to ring me back when the faxed information arrived, i’m still waiting for that call on Friday 28th August…..is this acceptable, NO it’s not!!!!

I rang today being Friday and was again told it’s being dealt with, why can no one give me a date? why is the banking department dragging their heels? why is money Read more

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