CSA encouraging appalling vindictive behaviour
February 4, 2012
I have be swiftly, unjustly and ruthlessly dealt with by the CSA. I am sick and tired of hearing and reading stories of claims against non-resident parents not getting off the ground, resident parents receiving next to nothing, long delays and non-resident parents ‘getting away with it.’ Those stories I read do not bare any resemblance to the experience I have had.
prior to the CSA getting involved I paid £550 per month for 4 years (plus paid for lots of other things), never missed a payment or paid even a day late. I saw my child Fri-Mon every weekend in term time (despite life being made as awkward as possible by his mother)and a big chunk of school holidays, a very close relationship and in excess of 104 overnight stays. My son’s mother then left the country without my consent and Read more
CSA acting illegally
February 4, 2012
I am extremely aggrieved by the action that the CSA have taken against me.
I have been making payments to my ex-wife (that were calculated by the CSA) for my children for the last 4 and a half years. For some reason, unknown to me, she recently approached the CSA and asked that they now collect payments and to re-assess the payment amount.
The CSA phoned me in December and insisted that I give them my bank details. Of course, I refused. I asked them to first send me the information in writing. I received two letters in January: one letter was a demand for payment, the other letter informed me that they would now be collecting the payments. They told me to provide the information, and the payment, or they would be seeking court action.
I replied to them asking for the legislation that they were acting under, a Subject Access Request, the logic that was used to calculate the arrears and verification of Read more
Absentee Father never has paid a penny to his three children
February 3, 2012
My Ex Partner Mr Martin Christopher Leathley has a full time job, and has Never paid anything for his three children.
His eldest child is now 17, and his youngest is now 10. He POPS up to my home like a bad penny every so many months, but has never gave me anything for their upkeep since they were born. He rarely sees them and all he has done is cause me trouble with my New Partner.
I am fuming that he hasnt been dealt with and it seems to me that i have always had to contact the CSA myself. This horrible Man, if you can call him a Man, has done nothing but humiliate me past and future with all this crap.
I even gave the csa details of where he worked who he works for and he doesnt pay any Rent, COUNCIL TAX as he lives with his Nephew and his two children.
I have done everything to get him caught by csa, but nothing AGAIN!!!! He actually made a comment to my two Sons and said “If Ididnt have you two today,I would be at work now making loadsa money now, do you know that?…my blood is boiling i hate him, and i hate the CSA for not doing anything for me and my children
He also knows that my Partner Paul went to work TO SUPPORT HIS THREE CHILDREN AND STILL NOTHING HAS BEEN DONE TO HIM. He has a Bank account anULTIMATE REWARD BANK ACCOUNT AND HAS A LOT MORE MONEY THAN ME. I have tried to get Employment myself but i had no problems getting the Jobs, it was when it was all calculated up, wasnt worth my while. I was WORSE OFF, so even that gets to me, knowing that i tried but i had to stay home with HIS THREE CHILDREN WHILE HE REAPED HIS OWN HARVEST IN, AND WHAT A GOLDMINE HES SAT ON NOW.
He only ever turns up to cause bother….
CSA taking us to court for thousands
February 3, 2012
I am speaking on behalf of my ex partner, he paid the mortgage on his and his ex partner from November 2006 and April 2007, she has confirmed this and asked him to pay this instead if her receiving child support. However the CSA have decided he should pay support anyway on top of this and have taken a case out against him. Then as a self-employed bricklayer he could not provide exact earnings, so they asked for estimates until his earning where given. I have always agreed to pay CSA and always given them the earnings they need to base the payments on. We have suspended out payments for the last thirteen months until the sort out these issues but just claim as a working man he should pay what they Read more
How do you avoid paying the csa
February 2, 2012
I think the men and women who are getting out of paying CSA are sick, you are meant to be paying to support your son or daughter yet you are willing to go to jail than pay a measly part of your wage!
Haven’t you thought who is stuck in the middle? The children! They are the ones who are suffering, they can’t go out with there friends because YOU have not paid.Have you wondered why your child doesn’t respect you? Because you have left there mother or father in debt because you do not want to pay.
I wouldn’t be surprised if they did not respect you for the way you have treated there parent.
I am in that situation I am a child and I don’t respect my dad after the way he has treated my mum over the years.
I know what It Is like! And It Is not fair having your dad moan on at you about the CSA blaming ME for his debt.
Do not let your Child get in to the situation I am in because soon enough they will want nothing to do with you like I want nothing to do with my dad.
CSA system so wrong
February 1, 2012
To cut a very long story short i am now divorced and my wife lives with a multi millionaire in a 2.5 million house, horses, astons, bentlys etc etc this was my so called best friend??? He took her on as a package with my two children, they want for nothing both in private education see the world on fantastic holidays and even down to all underwear theres a designer name on them! you get the picture do my children want for anything?
So like a fool i was paying her £260 every month she then thought that was not enough so approached the CSA i still ended up paying £260 so no problem until i lost my job thru no fault of my own and i set up my own business i have had the csa constantly on my case as my money was tight and she did not need it so you pay who you have to or so i thought! so 3 yrs down Read more
Non-payment of maintenance
January 31, 2012
Because my ex-husband is self-employed the CSA as was proved unable to set a realistic maintenance amount or enforce the one it did set. So I did not even receive the £5 per week the CSA determined was the amount he was required to pay.
In reality his earnings were not being fully taken into account as he did not complete tax returns and his life style was evidence of that. However, whenever I have sought support from CSA I have been told that it would be up to me to provide them with evidence of his circumstances. This was not possible, not least because he lived on the other side of the country, but also because as the resident parent of 2 young children and having to work more hours to compensate for the lack of maintenance, I did not have the time to pursue the matter!
The most bitter part of this pill to swallow (apart from watching my children go without things I would have wished for them) is that he is able to take me to court to ensure his right to access to his children, even though this is not denied him, whereas I have no recourse to the courts vis a vis maintenance!!!
I think both matters should be overseen by the courts and further more, I think access should be dependant upon sharing some financial parental responsibility.
CSA Have Never returned my calls after nearly 13 years
January 30, 2012
Oh where to start, Long and short of it is this, my Son is 13 in september,We know who the father is, The father lives in the same town , We know his address and registration plate for car, His wifes name also..
All this info was given to the CSA, yet I never ever get any contact from them at all, I have been calling them for years, each time i do call all i ever get told is that, its not this department that deals with it then i get passed to god knows who, and take contact detaisl from them as they do me. Everytime I call the case has gone ” Clerical ” for some reason, i have never asked for this Read more
I pay for my kids but cheating ex still went to the CSA
January 30, 2012
I have been seperated from my wife for nearly six years.
I left the marital home as i found out she was having an affair. We have two children together, 8 and 7 years old nearly, since i left i have seen my kids every single week for the past six years. I have them sunday night, monday and tuesday, i take them on holidays and also pay for everything they need when they are with me, be it school stuff or anything else.
My wife moved someone else into the house less than two weeks of me being gone, she is still with him and they have two kids together, i have not had a relationship for over 5 years as my two kids were my main priority, in may last year i got into a relationship for 7 months and in december when i got paid i found that CSA had taken Read more
CSA is threatening us
January 29, 2012
Our case has been going on for 4 years.My husband has 2 kids by his ex-wife who left him for a wealthy man that she was seeing behind his back .she had a child by him within 12 months of them starting to see each other.i have 2 children from my ex-husband who left the country and has never paid me a penny in 7 years, he also caused me to go bankrupt as we had a business together and he withdrew all the money from the sale on the day it went through. My husband was paying maintenance to his ex and we used to take all 4 kids on holiday and had his boys every weekend until his ex said that if my husband wanted to carry on seeing his kids he Read more
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