CSA Avoiding Payment

February 13, 2010

Your website discusts me. My ex has his own business and pays himself over £4000/month ( I have seen evidence) yet he has managed to foil the CSA and his calcultion is £26.81/month. I am appauled you encourage such behaviour from NRPs who are immorally wrong. My ex has used any means possible to avoid payments. When he finally got this result he told my if “I call” off the CSA he will make payments privately.

I agreed, but he then moved the goalposts wanting to pay less than originally offereded. The CSA and sites such as this just give him power to play games. I left him as he was abusive towards me.

Organisations like you have just made that worse. I am sick with worry.

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2 Responses to “CSA Avoiding Payment”

  1. chall on February 13th, 2010 11:24 am

    Hi Catherine,
    Sadly, if a NRP is of the frame of mind that they are going to be, for want of a better word difficult re payments, then no advice etc they receive from elsewhere will make any difference. I do agree, there are place such individuals can go that are biased and be encouraged – However, I don’t feel CSAHell meets that criteria.
    Others are genuinely struggling as a result of agency maladministration and
    errors and need assistance.

    On the other hand, there are PWC who with hold contact for no good reason…

    These situations are less than beneficial to the main party who will be affected – the child/ren.

    1) Regarding the calculation, did you appeal the agencies decision?
    2) Did you not make a mutually agreeable amount to be paid privately, before you cancelled the case with the CSA?
    3) Have you remained with the private agreement OR have you returned to the agency?
    -Your welcome to join us in the forum at http://www.afairercsaforall.co.uk

  2. Karen Bedford on February 14th, 2010 10:20 am

    Im sorry to hear of your story.

    I dont think you can accuse this website of the failings of the CSA and your ex. I have similar problem to you and I know its the fault of the CSA for not being set up to deal with ‘people’ like our ex’s and when they have evidence not using it correctly and basically not being fit for purpose and their imcompetencies, our ex’s just for being evil people who dont want to support their children and knowing they can use the CSA for this purpose. Unfortunately we can change our ex’s for being evil but we can try and get people to listen to us (remember its election year) to get the CSA to act in the best interests of the children and not in the best interests of the ‘people’ (i.e. ex’s) who do not want to support them, this doesnt discriminate against whether male or female whether NRP or PWC, Im a PWC and a mother but I know NRP and/or fathers have problems with their ex’s and the CSA also. We need to be focused on what the problem is and give blame to the culprits.

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