Child support Hell, Axe murder at the CSA

August 9, 2011

Hi what a wonderful idea! this movie seriously needs to go ahead, a team of cameras needs to follow REAL men & women into the CSA offices & capture every moment! my ordeal started in 96 when my ex told the csa i fail to put money into her account, lucky for me i kept the bank reciepts, ever since then i have been screwed over continuosly! my ex has not & will not allow any contact with my daughter who is now almost 16, i am the sole bread winner for my family, my wife & i have 4children.

Every step of the way has been an up hill battle trying to provide for them & as every paying parent knows the more you earn the more you pay……i have been through every avenue i can possibly think of to try & get help & always falling on deaf ears my story is one of sorrow & would take for ever to type out, however i am willing to discuss it further if you are genuinuely interested. As the months & years have ticked over i have come to realise i am not alone there are thousands of men like me around this country, but it is still little comfort at the end of each finacial year.

Please contact me if you intend going ahead with the movie i would love to be a part of it!! regards, Ernie Roemer-Hanisch

Comments

  • Emma Yeomans says:

    I would help you! My husband and I have had many years of hell with them too! I definitely think that this could do with the media attention. Years ago they changed the way they dealt with parents as many young men where committing suicide. My husband was physically and mentally abused by his first wife who did everything in her power to make his life a misery. She threw him out and moved someone new in and then came begging him back and when he said no he has paid the price at every which way ever since. Three weeks ago he got a letter from the CSA saying that he had not paid enough in 2008-2009 and are now demanding that we pay £533 by the end of the week (he earns £1200 a month) or they will be deducting it from his earnings. How then is that supporting children because my 6 year old and my unborn child will have nothing, I work as well but the bills are heavy (I am not in any debt nor have ever been overdrawn) and we will be destitute if they take that amount. We have written, we have rung, we have just got in touch with our local MP and law centre.

    My husband can’t see his children either as his ex wife told lies in court and got away with it. His Son calls her current husband Dad and has always been encouraged to, she doesn’t want my husband to be his Dad it ruins her sense of perfection but he is Dad when she wants a big fat sum of money. It’s not me going abroad every year and driving a sports car…………

  • j says:

    I’m up for it, in fact I’d like a part as an extra in that movie, what a great idea.

  • stuart mitchell says:

    On a serious note, It can only be a matter of time before a parent who has been screwed over and feels they have nothing left to lose does something terrible in a CSA Office.

    What angers me the most are the government who allow it to go on and do nothing.

  • j says:

    “stuart mitchell on November 22nd, 2012 5:50 pm

    On a serious note, It can only be a matter of time before a parent who has been screwed over and feels they have nothing left to lose does something terrible in a CSA Office.

    What angers me the most are the government who allow it to go on and do nothing.”

    Sadly you are probably right, unfortunately it won’t result in any major change, the people responsible for the csa don’t give a stuff how many low grade ‘footsoldiers’ get put in harms way. Its a sad indictment of this country that desparate people are reduced to drastic measures before someone listens but it will take an action on a senior official or senior politician before they take notice and do something. While I don’t condone this in anyway I also have no sympathy for any politician or civil servant that gets affected. The csa is a disgusting filthy evil money grabbing scam, it will serve them right if someone ‘snaps’ as you say.
    People should take responsibility for their children, they should also be treated fairly. The whole matter belongs in the family courts and all the csa employees should be sacked and made to get proper jobs.

  • stuart mitchell says:

    The MP’s are to blame for allowing this to go on, it is covered up and condoned, I will join you in not shedding any tears for them when the time for honouring themselves at our expense comes to an end.

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