Can I see my children if I pay the CSA?
February 16, 2011
Hi, hoping for a bit of advice.
Me and my ex split almost 2 years ago we have 3 children, my ex finished it so after a while i moved on and started seeing someone else.
Then inturn she stopped me from seeing my kids ( yep she’s a spitefull weirdo, think most blokes know what im on about), but then applied for csa after 1 year of not letting me see my children.
I was on jsa and had 3 different statements asking for different amounts (of which some ridiculous), so contacted them and they said i owed them nothing, but now i do again, im confused. I’ve just started work this week and offered to pay her directly to save the csa makeing anymore cock ups but she is saying there is too many forms to fill out and they would stop her benefits while they investigated or some crap, and im just wondering why do women think its ok to stop a dad seeing their kids (which is not fair or in the best interest for the children) for no reason but think its ok to take money off the dads for the best interest of their kids, is there anything i can do?
I’d like to pay for my children but she wont see reason and the csa are shite.
Just feels like im being bent over a barrel and shafted in any which direction.