Back with ex for a period but she lied and CSA wants money for that time

January 8, 2013

Well where do you start when talking about the CSA or the governmental mafia as i think they should be called.They only have the parent with the child in mind as they never help the non custody parent EVER.
My case is so straight forward or so i thought i have been paying the CSA now for over 12 years.This as stopped a couple of times once when i was out of work and my payments went to zero now its a minimum of £5 or £6 a week i think.The other time was when we reconciled and we got back together for over two years. When she blew me out again for the same man as the first time we finished.

(WHAT A MUG I WAS)

She got back straight onto the CSA for payments which i was paying, i have pleaded with the CSA for over 5 years that we reconciled and that i should be on a new scheme with a new case number but i am on the old scheme and on the old case number, the CSA only see black and white and that is on the poll tax forms and/or that we had a joint bank account in the time that we were back together. As i was not on the Council tax bill after being told by her i was, (HOW NAIVE WAS I ) and that i was also made bankrupt by the divorce so could not get a bank account at the time.

Later finding out the reason for the not being on the poll tax was the £600 a month she was getting from the working tax credit people, so she could not have me living there officially.I have documents of holidays together video and pictures with dates on when we were reconciled, the neighbours still live next door when i was living there and will give witness statements to the facts that i was living there.The CSA said they could not take this as proof.

When i asked them to ring the ex she said we never reconciled and that i never lived there she told them that i was using the address for post only. (LIAR). I paid nearly £2k in arrears on this old case number which would of been squashed if she had told the truth that we had reconciled.The latest in this fiasco is that i travel over 260 miles a week to work and the CSA say i can get a departure for the fuel allowance, i filled the relevant forms in and then when i got the decision back a was astonished to read what that they had written.

They said your case as all the the requirements for a departure but i cannot give this as something as come to light. When i asked this she said i rang up your ex and when i told how much the payments was going to drop, she said that she needed more money,(THIS IS SOMEONE WITH HER OWN BUSINESS, THAT OWNS A HORSE GOES ON TWO ABROAD HOLIDAYS A YEAR AND AS A MORTGAGE, OH AND IS A SINGLE PARENT!!!!) so the CSA refused me a departure on the ex’s remark(HOW CAN SHE GET THEM TO CHANGE THE RULES?).

So all i want to get over to you is if you get back with your ex’s make sure you get the proof you need to say that you were reconciled and don’t make the same mistake that i am paying for….Oh one more thing i had a call today from them that there going to do an attachment to earnings order as i have not made a payment whilst all this as been going on (4 months i think) I told them the child is now 19 and that the payments should be finished now just the arrears left to pay, they said the new law is up to 20 years old it started on the 10th December 2012 he was 19 on that day, so i should be safe, but i am not holding my breadth….

Comments

  • Jo says:

    Were you on the electorol register as living there and on council tax list? Having mail sent there? If you can get this proof then send it in to the csa.

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